Heartset; Love and Lust are a Two-Way Street


Both women and men love and lust. Women don't just attract men with their loving relationship skills and men don't just attract women with their constantly lusty energy. There are plenty of women who no longer believe in love and have just given in to the lust paradigm of hook-ups, use, and throw which is …

Heartset; Can She Be a Human Being?


She is either the big, bad, controlling monster because she's a strong, intelligent woman or little Cinderella princess needing the glass slipper put on her foot? Too many men are passive-aggressive about women I suppose because they don't understand us. We're neither of those two ends on a linear spectrum. I wonder if men are …

Everyday Intuition; Competition at Home


I remember feeling viscerally competitive on different levels with my previous mates with whom I lived. A lot of that is caused by sex. It gets you all riled up and thus the testosterone levels go up, especially for women which is not the best hormone to have in big supply. We need to relax. …

Body; size bias has changed so much in six years


“Fat’ is usually the first insult a girl throws at another girl when she wants to hurt her. I mean, is ‘fat’ really the worst thing a human being can be? Is ‘fat’ worse than ‘vindictive’, ‘jealous’, ‘shallow’, ‘vain’, ‘boring’ or ‘cruel’? Not to me; but then, you might retort, what do I know about …

Prose; Adoration Be Damned


I'm stalking a case for spring in the autumn of my middle age. My assembled energy is diametrically opposite that of needing the validation of an amassed group of imposters pretending to agree so they can drink together later. It's not that I don't like the group, or that I don't occasionally have a very …

Essay; It’s Barely Been 50 Years…


The following list is of NINE things a woman couldn’t do in 1971 – yes the date is correct, 1971. In 1971 a woman could not: 1. Get a Credit Card in her own name – it wasn’t until 1974 that a law forced credit card companies to issue cards to women without their husband’s …

Essay; The Honest Middle Ground


My last post, I made the point that I'm not interested in fawning adoration that leads to possessive marriage. Every woman I know is at a different point with this but it has to do with emotional maturity and financial independence. Most women don't prefer marriage, from what I've gathered, unless they're getting some type …

Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

Essay; A Woman’s Ego


  I originally blogged this on August 26, 2013; 6 years ago. The book I wrote, "Healer" has a section on gender.  Like most people, I believe that men and women have a tremendous amount in common biologically.  And I really do like most men.  However, socially, on Facebook, and in the town I live …

Heartset; The Truth Controlled as a Weapon for Materialism-Part 2


"There is, however, a significant weakness hiding in the imposing-looking materialist redoubt. It is as simple as it is undeniable: after more than a century of profound explorations into the subatomic world, our best theory for how matter behaves still tells us very little about what matter is."   Here is the link to the full article; Where does …

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