Essay; Bonding instead of Possession


  According to this picture, being physically alive is not a prerequisite to feeling bonded. Think about that. This is a common human experience all over the world; feeling the presence of and emotional bond to an ancestor who has died. Working with clients, I believe the emotional-spiritual bond humans feel to one another, family …

Essay; an Expiration Date is Normal for Monogamy & Marriage


I've been married and divorced three times and I don't regret any of it. All three of my husbands were brilliant, adoring men who tend to be what I prefer. I'm not an easy woman to live with because I'm passionate, freedom-loving, willful, very physical, and intelligent. I'm pretty much a wild filly although when …

Heartset; “I’m Sorry”


  What most people mean when they say I'm sorry is, "I'm sorry you caught me doing something I should not have and it hurt you." They're sorry they got caught. If you don't get caught or no one is bothered by your action, you're not hurting anyone, right? My first husband used to say, …

Essay; Is it a Relationship or Usage?


I've always been aware of this distinction but never considered that some people might not understand the difference. I always use my intuition and you can too to feel out the situation. For some reason, as soon as there is warmth or sex involved or the suggestion of sex, either or both parties may start …

Heartset; “I Love You”


What some people mean by “I love you” is that they are envious, jealous, and covet everything you’ve worked hard to become, and paid an earthly price for. It’s kind of like a brownie you want to eat. You don’t love the brownie, you want to consume and use the brownie for the sugar high, …

Essay; Define “Lover”. No Possession.


  It's a friendship middle ground where men are still free to roam and women are still free to roam emotionally and physically also because we don't need the ego validation of being the center of someone's world or possession. In fact, the last thing I want is someone to need me that much. It's …

Essay; Compromise With a Partner You Value


  There is much talk lately about never sacrificing yourself in an intimate relationship with a lover or a partner. I agree that it never works to lie or to give up so much of your time and what you want and need to do with your body and energy that you become very unhappy. …

Essay; So, The Men Are Just Being Friendly


It doesn't mean anything. When they have sex with you, they're just being friendly! I just woke up to this and cannot stop laughing over my espresso. All the trouble they have to go through to just to be friendly with a woman! "Why do we make it so complicated?!" they cry. Lmao. And I …

Essay; This is Why I Hate Dating Using Social Media


I paused my Zoosk account tonight. I'm getting so many guys viewing me and interested in meeting me who are not desirable; such as bad hygiene, covering how they look with a hat and sunglasses which is highly suspect, looking overly affectionate with their dogs and almost ready to take their pants off. I even …

Essay; Women Can Be Loving with Sexual Energy But Only if It’s Reciprocated


Today the rubber meets the road and as I was working out, Spirit got to me. Some say God or Source. I pride myself on listening for spiritual guidance so that I'm always in my power and integrity so that's what some of this information is. If it's not true for you, just leave it …

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