Essay; No Possession in Relationships


I guess the saying on the left could apply to women and to men but women are quite a bit more pre-meditated in choosing which men to talk to and then sleep with. Our lust does not control our rationality, much to men's dismay. Sometimes mine does but I'm working on curbing it now that …

Intimacy; You’re not necessarily in a relationship just because you have sex.


  What I'm seeing men do is, instead of doing a series of hook-ups, they decide to be monogamous with one woman. Then the assumption is that is a relationship. No, it's not; not if you don't have feelings for one another. It's just an ongoing hookup which is not a relationship. You're in a …

Men are Dramatic in Action and Women are Dramatic in their Speech


How many bazillion times have you heard a guy say "No drama!"? They act like they give women no drama. Men are over the top!!! Men get emotional physically and sometimes verbally. Their actions are too dramatic. That's the testosterone and they put WOMEN through the wringer not being able to calm down their testosterone …

Heartset; “I care about you too but…”


I've heard this line from the last five men I've dated. I think it's a MINIMUM expression of emotional involvement, fake or not to try to get sex. Meaning, he's not going to have any feelings for you UNLESS he has sex with you. I'm not judging that. It's very male. That's how feelings come …

Essay; The Honest Middle Ground


My last post, I made the point that I'm not interested in fawning adoration that leads to possessive marriage. Every woman I know is at a different point with this but it has to do with emotional maturity and financial independence. Most women don't prefer marriage, from what I've gathered, unless they're getting some type …

Essay; When a Man Says He Doesn’t Want a Relationship…


It means no woman has ever loved him enough to show him what a loving relationship is with the right woman. And on a base level, he can't want a relationship if he doesn't really know what it is. She has to be diligent and willing to do the work. She has to understand that …

Essay; Misconceptions About Strong Women


Strong women have been broken and usually ripped to shreds and used by family, death, life, employers, and the opposite sex and don't sink to the bottom, use others cynically or crack up. They remain open, brave, active warriors on this very difficult planet that says "Love" all the time but doesn't do it. They …

Prose; brave or broken?


Sometimes broken passes for brave when in truth, every day you live with a full cup at the feet of a Universe that loves and watches over every one of us equally and asks us to always have an open heart to serve our fellows. In the end, we are all ONE. It's ok to …

Essay; a middle-aged, healthy woman gives up nothing during sex; she gains.


This article is so interesting as far as the male psyche goes. I had to read several sections a few times to understand it and I still need to mull it over. Men Lose Respect for Women With Whom They Have Sex "Some men and many women have been socialized into thinking that the woman …

Essay; The Way It Works is…


My intuition has taught me... Talking is easy for women and sex is not. Sex is not superficial for us. Sex is easy for men and talking are not. Talking is not superficial for men. Women need sex to grow. Men need talking to grow. Make sure you each have what you need the way …

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