Essay; With No Contact, The Attraction Wears Off


I believe studies have shown this about women. The initial hormone high of attraction falls away if there is no contact, no talking (hearing his voice), you don't see him and you receive no communication. That has been the case here. Because I'm intuitive, that has all kicked in very strong and I recommend following …

Essay; There is Pressure on Women to Hold Ourselves in Higher Esteem


"Women, love and honor yourself even if by the societal view you are a freak, brilliant, ugly or super beautiful, fit or not fit. If you're not average, other women will be jealous and you'll need to live with that." The reason being, in truth, every woman is a goddess. Some women feel and know …

Prose; Elemental Woman


  Fire and Ice Woman... fire in chains walking through mans' ice storm. There is barely anywhere for us to rest on pliable earth, caressed by dew-kissed grass and flowers and visited by genial insects and creatures. Man is a covetous, territorial beast, contemplating a meal, food for his belly, something to drink, and metal …

Body Truth; False Equivalencies of Gender


My intuition came on strong today regarding a remedy for what is perceived now in the media as immense gender disparity, women as the victims, and a desire for justice. Matriarchy and Patriarchy, operating our human societies for the last 10,000 years have set up false equivalencies of power. False equivalence is a logical fallacy in …

Heartset; Maybe Humans Crave Certain Feelings, not Drugs Themselves


  That's a pretty interesting suggestion.  It's probably not a new one but I sure don't hear anyone talking about that.  It would mean that you crave the way a drug makes you feel not the drug itself. For me, it's like craving a song I love. Music is food for me as is dancing …

Essay; Feel Free to Bother Me


I went out tonight to hear jazz. My friend was playing. I was perfectly happy sitting alone with my sushi and drink. Then I feel these tentacles pulling on me and then staring, wanting my attention, wanting to talk, wanting to come over. He was needy and lonely.  I wasn't. Why was he?  How many …

Essay; Bashing the Women’s March?


Day three and already I see FB posts of women bashing the Women's March attendees. Not cool...at all. I do already feel like an empowered woman and in no way a victim despite events around me that I had no control over. I've worked tooth and nail for that. I wasn't drawn to go to …

Essay; Middle Age Dating


I'm fifty-six.  My twenty-year-old son says, "Mom, you're such a hippie". Well, sort of. The birth years for hippies are 1945-1965 so I was born at the tail end; in 1963. But if you sat in the middle west in a Christian church, surrounded by white people and Republicans, you didn't get the hippie memos …

Essay; Men Have Feelings During Sex


WHAT?  Seriously? I read this article two days ago because I'm trying to figure something out. Sex Reveals His True Feelings My jaw was dropping open as I read it.  I'm not sure I believe it but it is from "The Huffington Post" and the fellow sounded sincere.  Then I discussed it with some women. …

Essay; Sad and Sorry…Pivoted


I was just, in the flow of things, feeling sad and sorry today thinking about the fact that we are heading into the Memorial Day weekend and I am mate-less because he died March 13th.  That could make you feel sorry for me in and of itself, especially since he was my soul mate but …

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