It's all socially permissible and fine for women and men to be promiscuous now. Everything has changed in the last few years. I include men in the Ho category. In fact they seem to feel privileged to be so detatched. I find that doubtful. Women my age are as hot as ever and the younger …
Intimacy; dogs or gods?
Who could resist that adorable puppy coming running toward them for attention? There ya have it. That's the curse women are under with cute men. I've interviewed women and they agree. When a man is really cute he's very hard to resist! It's terrible. We just want to love em' up and feed them, make …
Men are Dramatic in Action and Women are Dramatic in their Speech
How many bazillion times have you heard a guy say "No drama!"? They act like they give women no drama. Men are over the top!!! Men get emotional physically and sometimes verbally. Their actions are too dramatic. That's the testosterone and they put WOMEN through the wringer not being able to calm down their testosterone …
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Heartset; Men Blame Women for Giving in to Sex if the Man Really Wants Connection
How are we supposed to know off the bat that a man is truly interested in us? He'll behave like a gentleman and not a horny dog in the alley. He'll dress nice and take us on a date. The same could be true of a woman. She wants to know who you are not …
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Heartset; Three Types of Heterosexual Relationships
The only one of these that is a real relationship is #3. The first two are sexual objectification. But by most people's standards, #1 is a real relationship and is considered prison by many men but socially increases his status. Really, any man who prefers #2 will say he doesn't want a relationship with a …
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Heartset; Love and Lust are a Two-Way Street
Both women and men love and lust. Women don't just attract men with their loving relationship skills and men don't just attract women with their constantly lusty energy. There are plenty of women who no longer believe in love and have just given in to the lust paradigm of hook-ups, use, and throw which is …
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Essay; Sexual Shaming of Men
I've been thinking about this issue for about a year now but it coalesced last night when I read a quite long, but well-thought-out blog post on this site that made light of how many women absorb shame from men when we have sex with them. Before that, we're fine, happy with ourselves, like …
Heartset; Can She Be a Human Being?
She is either the big, bad, controlling monster because she's a strong, intelligent woman or little Cinderella princess needing the glass slipper put on her foot? Too many men are passive-aggressive about women I suppose because they don't understand us. We're neither of those two ends on a linear spectrum. I wonder if men are …
Heartset; A #Female #Intimacy Myth Revealed
There's a myth I keep running into whenever I really like a man, we know each other and are friends, I'm attracted to him and want to have sex with him. His assumption is, given all of the desires I've listed above, I'll fall in love with him or I am in love with him and …
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Everyday Intuition; Competition at Home
I remember feeling viscerally competitive on different levels with my previous mates with whom I lived. A lot of that is caused by sex. It gets you all riled up and thus the testosterone levels go up, especially for women which is not the best hormone to have in big supply. We need to relax. …
Staying on Earth Through Our Ascension; Time is DNA 