Heartset; Three Types of Heterosexual Relationships


The only one of these that is a real relationship is #3. The first two are sexual objectification. But by most people's standards, #1 is a real relationship and is considered prison by many men but socially increases his status. Really, any man who prefers #2 will say he doesn't want a relationship with a …

Essay; Bonding instead of Possession


  According to this picture, being physically alive is not a prerequisite to feeling bonded. Think about that. This is a common human experience all over the world; feeling the presence of and emotional bond to an ancestor who has died. Working with clients, I believe the emotional-spiritual bond humans feel to one another, family …

Essay; an Expiration Date is Normal for Monogamy & Marriage


I've been married and divorced three times and I don't regret any of it. All three of my husbands were brilliant, adoring men who tend to be what I prefer. I'm not an easy woman to live with because I'm passionate, freedom-loving, willful, very physical, and intelligent. I'm pretty much a wild filly although when …

Essay; Marriage is Prison for Some Women


  One of the main comments I've heard from women patients in my office is, "I want to be alone, not married. I wish I was free and single like you." Many women feel like prisoners in their marriage and their physical ailments and stress level are consequently very high. I bet many married men …

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