I took an Excedrin for the morning’s headache, got back in bed and did some Wim Hof Migraine Breathing. Three cheers for our pal, Mr. Hof!!! The pain vanished, and the caffeine took me back to the words of my dear mother, God rest her soul. “We live in a sex cult.” Yeah, right out […]The sex sense – an alien perspective on love and reductionism
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A further SHIFT within the Energetic Core within your Earth is creating an expanded focus, almost like a magnification of the Higher frequencies that open up an expanded LIGHT Framework. This “frame” is currently playing the role of a network that surrounds your planet and has been evolving over this period of time. This Network of LIGHT continues to SHIFT and Transform itself to carry the reflected change of a landscape of Multidimensional components that NOW make up planet Earth.
The Earth’s profile has changed and continues to unfold through an intensification of a LIGHT Pulse emanating from the Magnetic Core and interacting within the Grids, Vortexes and Ley Lines throughout the planet. These pulses are affecting and deepening the interaction between All the Sacred Sites throughout Earth, and this process is building an added intensity within the Earth’s Webbing. These Higher Dimensional LIGHT Framework designs are creating an environment to hold the extreme drama, which is destined to continue to unfold over the coming months.
Earth’s Shifting Frequencies also are being reflected within our resident Universe. The LIGHT from the Central Space of your planet is radiating out at a Higher LIGHT Vibration, and that is contributing to an Expanded Frequency Patterning within our Universe. “The God SOURCE Seat of Power” that extends beyond this Universe is NOW interactive within the movement of a Fluid Platform on Earth and throughout this entire resident Universe.
The HIGHER Knowledge from “the God SOURCE Seat of Power” benefits our Universe by bringing a Higher State of Collective Consciousness to every life force group within the Universe, including Humankind. This is the action of our Collective Destinies, for we, and all of our Universal Groups, are ONE within the God SOURCE Consciousness State.
This next step action of Earth’s reemergence within the Universe is significant for all of Humanity. Through the Holy component of the LIGHT, of LOVE, which is BEing reflected onto your planet, many Re-Openings and natural Re-Awakenings will occur. The Frequency of the LOVE is designed to reconstruct the Multidimensional components of your Heart to enable you to significantly accelerate into a Collective Awakening.
Earth’s future role within the Universe is destined to BE significant. As the Energetic Frequency of LIGHT further intensifies and transforms on your planet, a Higher resonance of vibrational LOVE is ignited to actively interact throughout the Universe. The God SOURCE Consciousness network will realign Earth within the Universe and beyond. Your Earth plane is being realigned to this Higher Order of God SOURCE Consciousness at this juncture. That will reveal, and activate, a series of Higher-Elevated Frequency Platforms that have previously Not been accessible to you as a race.
Within these Newly formed Energetic Platforms exist dynamic flows of Electrical LIGHT that is drawing out the density within your planet’s physical structure and within the Human physical form. There has been an UnEarthing of this density, which has been hidden and held within Humanity and locked up until this Juncture. The internal pulse within your Earth plane is creating a lifting of this old, dark, hidden intensity, creating upheaval and the intense third-dimensional drama.
The violence and turmoil arising within your communities is part of the overall process to bring about a NEW Balance and a NEW Order of TRUTH to Be set in motion within your communities. The uprising is the result of hidden pain, suffering and suppression. Through the Higher LIGHT Frequency anchoring onto the planet, this imbalance can be tolerated NO More. Suppression and oppression through the prejudice and a lack of justice can NO longer continue within this HIGHER Energetic Environment.
Truth is being revealed. This is essential at this time within your communities. A NEW Order of Unity will Evolve within your Society, and each one of you plays a role within this Changing Cycle. As you choose to move and align within your Heart, you anchor TRUTH, which establishes a beginning of this NEW Order Directive to Birth within your communities.
YOUR OWN HEART
Our message to you is to live within the integrity of your own Heart. Allow the frequency of LIGHT to Shine Forth from your Heart. As you hold a steady platform of reconnection within your Heart, you are creating reconnection. You are able to utilize the powerful, Pure LIGHT Energy within your planet through your Heart to support this transition and much-needed change within Humanity. Those of you on this Awakened Path have pre-agreed to Anchor this Unlimited Energy of LIGHT Flow that exists within you to imprint your unique frequency of God SOURCE LIGHT through the Heart to support the SHIFT of the whole of Humanity.
You get to consciously choose these Sacred Moments of reconnection within your Heart Space. This is your individual role right NOW. There is nothing more essential than to take this action and anchor a NEW Wave of Consciousness within your Heart. This frequency of change can flow naturally from your Heart and out across your planet, creating an unfolding base for all Humanity to transform.
Simultaneously, this also is the Time for you to do some deep introspective work within your Human component. This is about you creating building blocks of stabilization for your Human element to enable a Balance to BE Bridged between your Multidimensional Nature and your Humanity.
Work within your Humanness by focusing on the feelings that are arising within you. Every feeling that is surfacing within you is BE-ing triggered, directly linked to events that are transpiring within your outer world. Spend the time examining the depth of your feelings, owning those feelings, whatever they are. Feelings do Not define you, and your feelings don’t have to make any logical sense. You are BE-ing triggered by the varied diverse happenings that are taking place within your life, within your world. These deeply lodged feelings have been within you. They are unresolved feelings from past experiences that you were unable to express at the moment of the experience.
Whatever the feelings — whether they are fear, struggle, anger, rage, betrayal or simply feeling out of control — the content does Not matter. What really matters is that you can take this time to feel what is coming up inside of you and what is being mirrored by the events around you. Simply feel the depth of the feelings and use the Conscious Breath (in and out of the mouth) to work deeply within these expressions as they arise within you. You can liberate your SELF. Let Go of old patterns from the past that have kept you in that cycle of self-sabotage in your day-to-day life. This is the Time for SELF-Resurrection!
DESTINED TO UNITE
Together, as a community, you are destined to Unite within your Hearts. The only True meeting point is within your Hearts. The Heart is beyond the corrupt energy of your ego mind. The Sacred Heart Communion is the most profound reference point that holds Pure Truth and LOVE within Earth’s environment.
The Collective TRUTH of joined Hearts can never be tainted. It creates an anchor base of Pure LOVE for Humanity to Birth. This Frequency of LOVE is necessary to set in motion the Evolution of a HIGHER Paradigm within Earth, re-anchoring Sacred Elements on your planet and re-establishing the element of “Heaven on Earth.”
Keep Letting Go and Trusting the vastness of your own Heart. In Truth, you can.
This time of Huge transformation, and transmutation, is being supported by the entire Universal community to allow for the unfolding of a full potential of your planet Earth so you and your communities can emerge into an authentic unique aspect of the God SOURCE LIGHT Network. Each one of you contributes to this Network with your unique colors of God SOURCE. “Like a Butterfly emerging from a cocoon, you spread your wings and take flight.”
Through the duration of this third-dimensional chaos, you are being called to open into a continual Letting-Go process. You are to hold your focus within your Heart and open into Letting Go, and then choose to Let Go on another level. “Letting Go” is the conscious choice of realigning to your Rebirth. This letting go is done in increments as you move into transformation one step at a time. As you Let Go, you are allowing a continual falling away of the illusion that you have been holding onto. With each Conscious Breath you take within your Heart, you simply choose change.
Allow your attachments to the agenda of your ego mind to fall away. This is Self-Liberation. Allow your Heart to guide you. Breathe into the letting go of limitation as you embrace a whole NEW World of possibilities for your SELF within the Heart. As you choose to let go of the old debris connected to the illusion of the ego mind, you set your SELF Free to have more expanded experiences within the Heart. Simply choose to witness the drama and do NOT engage within the drama.
Your next step is to consciously anchor your Awareness within your Multidimensional Heart and allow a series of conscious choice moments of unfolding to occur within your Heart. This is the action of you Birthing you through your Multidimensional Heart. There is nothing more powerful for you to set in motion right NOW than this action of Self-Fulfillment within your Heart.
KNOW that you are NOT Alone in this Journey. Call forth the help you require in your day-to-day living to fully navigate through this time. Be specific in what you are asking to receive for your SELF — your needs, your desires.
Claim your Abundance and KNOW that the activation of your own creation energy elements arises within your Heart. Let Go and Trust the unfolding within your life that is in front of you. Each day open up in Gratitude for all that you have in this Moment. Through you taking ownership of your own creation in your world, you can align to a more focused part of your energy that exists within your Heart. BE the active creator of your world through your Heart. Set in motion a Wave of Creation Energy from your Heart outwards into your life by generating and building the energy of your Heart’s desire.
Your True action of power lies within you as you actively work within your Heart.
This process is simple. It is designed for you to harness your Heart’s Multidimensional Purpose in your life and to activate your Heart’s Desire in your life.
1. Hold your Heart with both palms resting on your chest. Align with your Awareness and a Conscious Breath (breathing in and out of the mouth).
2. Once you have anchored in your Heart Energy, begin to build the thought of your Heart’s Desire within your Heart. You achieve this by bringing your Awareness to your Desire, with the color, the form or details of the Desire. Your Heart will respond, whether you see, sense or feel this building energy or essence of your Desire. There may be a feeling of excitement or joy that is arising within you!
3. Once you have built the Energy of the Desire within your Heart, bring the sound — ENTAH EEE — within your Heart. This will release the energy of your desire to BEcome Manifest within your life. Note: Bring as many sounds as you need until it feels complete.
As you create with your Heart, you begin to actively align within this Higher Network on your Earth plane. Your conscious choice to join this Higher Network of LIGHT is another step of your Mission. We hold you, and witness you, on your journey.
shared with LOVE 💜
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Do you know the difference between lust and love? I’ll go with the hard one first; Love. Love is when you want to take time to really know someone, to care about how they feel, what they need and what makes them tick. You want to be their friend. Friendship is the basis of all lasting, lusty, good relationships. It takes time and maturity to grow. Lust is everything else. Anything that’s not love is lust. Lust is the emotion behind most human interactions and has the face of greed, trolling on Facebook, offloading on strangers and the like. If you have no foundation of care and face-to-face friendship with someone you are indulging in instant gratification lust and there is nothing loving about it.
This issue has been challenging for me. I’m a very passionate, physical woman and have no problem lusting after men who are very attractive to me. I don’t act on it; it’s just fun. My personality and values are all about love. There isn’t really any other material thing I lust after; unless I’m really hungry. then I lust after food.
That’s a good segue because food hunger is almost exactly like sex hunger in the brain. And notice how many people overeat when they just need some love, affection, and sex. We’re looking for a serotonin spike and some other juicy brain chemicals that make us happy. I know I am. Food doesn’t come close to making me happy the way intimacy and love does. I don’t even like bothering to stop and fix food because I’m busy with my projects, writing, chores, things I love to do! Why do I have to stop and eat? I’ve always been like that. I’m not terribly fond of slowing down.
Now we see a problem here; denial of human need when you know it’s not likely to be easily fulfilled! I’ve been married three times to great men and had several great boyfriends. I’m still not satisfied. They weren’t perfect or didn’t satisfy me the way I really want to be. They didn’t make my brain and body explode with orgasmic happiness, although my last mate Michael came close. He loved me…really, really loved me and I loved him. Love is the sexiest thing going. Then he died suddenly. That’s not helping the situation. Love is definitely tragic.
It makes me wonder about eating disorders. If you take that denial of the need for love, warmth, and affection far enough it would make your brain or specifically, the hypothalamus gland stops craving food. So the emotion of lust would be good at this point versus the emotions around deprivation.
I’m not into deprivation at all but I am sorely afraid of loving a man, pulling him to me, and pushing him away because I need to be alone with my ideas, my mind, my life, my work, and my writing. I don’t want to hurt him. There has to be some intimacy and some time shared with your loved one or they will go away. I hate that.
I think I’ve stayed in lust mode in my brain because I’ve lost too many people I’ve loved. It’s like a car idling. My life isn’t idling but my feelings about bonding in a relationship are definitely idling. Maybe I’m stuck in lust gear because it’s emotionally safer. There is no risk of having your heart ripped out and stomped on the floor by death and life itself if you don’t go into love gear and really start driving.
Both women and men love and lust. Women don’t just attract men with their loving relationship skills and men don’t just attract women with their constantly lusty energy. There are plenty of women who no longer believe in love and have just given in to the lust paradigm of hook-ups, use, and throw which is what most men engender. So the women just go along with it having experienced too many men who don’t seem to want to love or don’t know how to. The women are busier making money than teaching the men about feelings or loving them in friendship.
There are also plenty of loving, sensitive men who do want intimacy, bonding, and a monogamous relationship. The key is obviously to find the person who wants the same thing as you. And it’s hard for men to trust women when many women are very bitchy or downright abusive and mean. They don’t take care of themselves and are in no mood to be loving to a man.
It does seem to generally be true that men are very, very comfortable lusting after women and just going forward with that and wishing for the woman to cooperate. It’s also generally true that women are more relational and loving and draw men in with that warmth going forward and wish a man would cooperate with that. The problem is, most women will not just cooperate with pure lust in a relationship with no bonding and most men will not just cooperate with pure loving relational energy in a relationship with bonding. There has to be compromise.
The truth is men sorely, sorely need someone who they can express their deepest feelings with and feel safe; someone who will be their friend with whom they can talk. They need a relationship far more than a woman. That can happen with a kind woman. The truth is women sorely, sorely need hot, great sex that fulfills their physical needs with a man who cares how she physically and emotionally responds to sex. Sex is spiritual to most women! We need a man who will stimulate our lustiness! I have yet to meet a man who really wants to get to know my body and soul sexually. I’ve almost given up. I wonder if men feel the same way about expressing their feelings to a woman without her making fun of him?
I don’t know. What I do know is that a woman’s lusty self needs to be stimulated by a man and a man’s relational self needs to be stimulated by a woman. Then both of them will be more satisfied and turned on.
This one floored me when I saw it. What do you think?
The first question I asked myself was “Why is this true?” The quote is attributed to Graham Greene. There are several to be found online and I’m not sure which one he is but those listed are all artists of some type.
I personally agree that we cannot love without intuition because intuition has its source in the unconscious mind, the Id, sex, chaos, passion, wild emotion, dreams and so forth. When we really love someone it’s a powerful draw, magnetic, a longing. In my case, it’s possible destiny. Sometimes the person shows up in our dreams. This is a psychic event as in psyche and not simply lust. I have experienced this. Have you? I want to know if you have. Tell me about it.
There is no rational reason why you are so drawn to this person. But many times there are synchronicities. I’ve blogged on here about my twin flame which was highly surrounded in synchronicity and still is. We’re still in touch, talked a lot last week, and he is being a little warm but nothing major. And another man is in my psychic space that I haven’t fleshed out yet. We haven’t met but I’d like to meet him. I’m not in love with him though as I am with my Twin Flame. Both of them have been in my dreams and are not just issues of lust so I know they are hooked to my psyche.
The Id, which is below the subconscious ego is also basically the lower body, below the navel. From a man’s perspective, of course, you cannot love without intuition because, for them, they cannot love without sex. That begs the question, “Is sex the seat of a man’s intuition?” Holy crap!!!! I never thought of that but it makes sense. Let me know if you think that’s the case. Women will be floored if that’s true. I need the men to let me know if sex is intuitive for you. I better stop there. As a woman, sex is not intuitive for me. The seat of my intuition is chakras 6, 5, and 4 (third eye, throat, and heart)
I hope I hear from you.
Who should take good care of your heart? The only one taking care of your heart should be you. Only share it with everyone else. Your heart condition is your business! Anything else has a disaster at the end of it or chaos. We all know this! Why do people keep doing it? Because it feels good…for a while! It doesn’t last peeps. Lust feels good. Love lasts forever and that comes from loving yourself and being your own best friend.
Do you remember this song? It’s originally a 1984 Jermaine Jackson, Whitney Houston tune. This a new arrangement. Once again, I like the music but completely disagree with the lyrics. LOL! Nevertheless, these two seem like good friends and are flirting galore. That’s very cool. I’m a musician. Musicians have quite a bit of creative eros between them so usually, things flow.
Why do we want to be right all the time?
Why do I want to be right most of the time?
Why do I glee over saying, “See, I was right!”
Because we doubt ourselves too much so we are reassuring ourselves by saying it.
Because others who doubt themselves doubt us and say it!
Because others project their experience of being shunned for being or doing something that was wrong, onto us.
Because “if you make a mistake, you are forgiven”, isn’t widely practiced.
So, now I try to catch myself and say, “Lisa, do what you feel, study what you feel, write what you feel and use the best skill you’ve got. That’s all you can do.” I’ve got a lot of skill and I’ve paid the piper so I have no reason to doubt myself. Whether anyone will listen and understand has never proven to be plentiful. So what?
And now, when someone criticizes me harshly when I meant absolutely no harm and never do, I know that they have not forgiven themselves for being wrong or someone else has not forgiven them for being wrong or vice versa.
It closes the heart.
Wow, the feeling of being around someone with a closed heart and lots of conditions, or an open heart and few conditions, is night and day.
I’m stalking a case for spring in the autumn of my middle age.
My assembled energy is diametrically opposite that of needing the validation of an amassed group of imposters pretending to agree so they can drink together later.
It’s not that I don’t like the group, or that I don’t occasionally have a very dry martini, I just don’t viscerally need the group. They get exhumed energy from each other; even demand it threatening social castigation, as though there would be any real loss there.
I haven’t figured out how to affix myself to a rumbling male in my present condition.
In addition, my mephitic eighteen-year-old son will be moving out of the house soon to go on his way to sow his oats and beans. My peaceful environment is proliferating.
As I think back on the men/mates I’ve adored and who have adored me, as vain as that sounds, it was called love at the time and then it turned into territorial civil war and possessive jealousy.
I’m pretty sure that uncorked behavior is common and some couples like it that way but some don’t. I don’t.
It’s just that, in this new paradigm of sitting in my body and owning myself, that adoration doesn’t feel like it’s all it’s cracked up to be.
It feels as though I’ve forged an alliance with a fawning cat whose nursing by pushing its paws into my chest.
Maybe it’s just the mood I’m in.
When a man starts to adore me he wants to own me, my time, and my body, like a puppy!
That’s been my experience with every man I’ve been with except this last guy I dated. He left me in the dog house neglected, but at least he didn’t bug me. I know there are all the ideas about giving your mate the space they need, but then the real emotions of amorous desire creep in.
“I want you”, “I adore you”, “I need you”, “I love you”, “I miss you” becomes a medieval prison!
I used to think I wanted to be adored by a man with high self-esteem and all the pheromones I need to be turned on, but now I’m not so sure.
I love my life, my work, my friends, and my home. Maybe all of that adoration would be oppressive! I’d have to respond after all or that would be rude.
…or you can be sure she is using you for sex, which is what she assumes is the main thing you want and you both go down together. No one’s life is improving there. If it’s what you both want I guess it’s fine but it’s not what I want. I’ve decided I want the whole deal again.
It’s a good idea right off the bat to be honest about what you’re looking for. There are plenty of women who just want sex and not a relationship also! You can also pay for a woman’s services and they will be professionals, fit, limber, lingerie, come-fuck-me-heels, ready to go for a price! They are the ones who are cynical about men and have given up on love and have no faith in men to be intelligent, relational, human beings.
Every woman has given up on men at some point on a heart level but not all of us can do that to our bodies. It’s toxic energy but many men are actually at the level and staying at that level. I’m not in denial about it. I don’t think that will be good sex, but, hey, everyone has their standards. I don’t shame men anymore either. I actually believe it’s men’s natural level to be absolutely shallow about sex and natural for women not to be. The much bigger deal to them is friendship and caring. Sex is easy for men and they’ve been shamed for it, unjustly. Women aren’t shamed for being relational or wanting to have children which all comes naturally to us! We need to stop sex-shaming everyone! So there is absolutely no point of lying and using a good woman who wants friendship, to get to know you as a person, to be with you, and possibly the whole deal.