Balancing Equality on Earth Calls for Organized Thinking.


Are you able to track your own thoughts and feelings these days? It’s essential that you have organized thinking to make decisions that are safe and to have a healthy body as our society and media are turned upside down with lies and manipulations.  It’s never been much different than that but now it’s very blatant.

The world and the media around us are run by chaotic, addicted, psychopathic, greedy people who we have allowed to get into power. Why? Humans have a weak point that could easily be our downfall and that is believing what we WANT to believe about the outside world and others and not organizing our observations and thoughts to add it up to the truth. Mammals like to be comfy and domestic. We like to clean up our nest, mate, have babies, nurse them, feed them, work and cook. Most people want others to like them although the number is growing that don’t care. We can see that behavior all over the world in every culture and in the animal world. Anything that challenges that comfy mandate we have learned to take with us into DENIAL. That is especially the case if we had a physically or emotionally abusive childhood. The denial, we feel, helps us survive. I remember a client asking me, “Don’t you think it would be easier if I confront my parent about the abuse after we die and I see them on the other side?” This woman is a lovely spiritual person and this was her thinking. She wanted to remain in denial to not deal with something uncomfortable even though the truth would be revealed. If enough of the population does this societies turn into dictatorships with the population very easy to control because they’ve already been willing to be the emotionally walking dead. The answer is NO! don’t wait. Life is to be lived with faith and passion, failure and success. Grab the TRUTH With gusto and be your best self.

The reason we make this mistake is because we are co-creators with tremendous powers of soul, feeling, passion, and art. Meaning we instinctively know that whatever we personally put our minds and bodies to with regard to OUR OWN lives, it changes and manifests what we want. We’re taught that as children by saving our allowance and then buying something and learning how to ride a bike. We gain freedom of movement. People learn at different rates and with different levels of focus but from the time we are babies we learn that by executing certain behaviors we can get what we want. If we didn’t, we’d never get up on two feet and walk in order to go after it.

However, when it comes to OTHERS, that social piece is a big hang-up for humans. The smartest humans also learn from a young age to get what they want and how to manipulate others emotionally and mentally to get it. Those are the young politicians. They don’t mind lying at all and rationalize it big time. They learn to tell people what they want to hear and are rewarded when they get the response, “Now THAT’s what I wanted to hear.” They raise money and proceed into office rhetorically telling people what they want to hear, not the truth. They are opportunists on the backs of public indolence and then we blame them for being what we wanted them to be. THAT IS HAPPENING NOW on a much wider scale with health, our bodies, and politics. Everything in the media is lies.

Others are not the same as us, yet as young children we are essentially self-focused and see them as mirrors. They are not mirrors. It’s just the mirror neurons of the brain functioning to help us fit in and socialize our brain. What separates people socially are their VALUES which come from a conscience. Our families can only achieve so much in that area. The larger culture steps in affecting our own proclivities and we walk the line of loving others with healthy boundaries or using others with no boundaries.

That’s where SAFE behavior and observation and higher thinking comes in. Today it is seen as TONE 6 whose attributes are balancing equality with organization. There is little if any equal sharing of power on earth whether it be between genders or cultures (races is a misnomer). That’s because the levels of intelligence between humans has a HUGE DIVIDE. Most of the population can only organize their thoughts to the level of a fifth grader and the handful that are doing us in are evil geniuses. This is not a good combination and that is where we find ourselves today.

The Moon is in Gemini and Mercury is the mediating planet for White Dog∞Red Moon so as usual, that is an exact synchronicity with astrology.

Our theme today is White 6 Dog; Love, loyalty and heart. White dog is a strong leader, a guardian, a companion, consistent, faithful, a team player and a joiner. This is a nice change of pace and there are many people like this. It’s not necessarily safe for them to be on the street, but yes, they exist.

The Analog is Red 6 Moon; purification, flow and universal water. I blogged on Red Moon yesterday. Knowing how you feel helps you follow the road signs.

The Antipode is Yellow 6 Sun; enlighten, life, and Universal fire. This is a very spiritual archetype and White Dog is not terribly spiritual but more natural and simple. The Spiritual movement and habits can be challenging for them where in their Dog world, making a meal for someone they care for is as spiritual as they get.

The Hidden Wisdom is Blue 8 Monkey or Galactic play, illusion, and magic. This O.P. gives this kin great physical prowess to the point of being an athlete.  It is artistic with the body, spontaneous, extraordinary and a co-creator of higher physical life.

MOLECULAR LINE-UP

Methionine and the Stop Codon are the Start and Stop codon for the mRNA sequence. That is Yellow Sun and Blue Monkey

Essay; Men and Sex. Not the Same as Women! Polyamory vs. Celibacy


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The male animal has been domesticated and it’s not all pretty. I think of that right-wing show I can’t stand, “Last Man Standing” with Tim Allen as the star. I am at a unique vantage point right now on this issue as a single, 56-year-old, financially independent woman.

The societal Disney pictures are that I’m supposed to have kids in college or graduated and grandchildren on the way in a loveless and sexless marriage going to church every Sunday in order to be respected and to be “an honest woman”. That is not the case here and I’m happy about it. I live my life in truth and do whatever I want.

The societal Disney picture proscribed onto a 56-year-old man is pretty much the same but it’s far more likely that he is lonely from what the stats report. I’m never lonely. Women find real love through our children and grandchildren. I hear there is nothing better. Our mates have never been a terribly adequate source of love, let’s face it. Over time, we get tired of each other’s issues and the stats bear me out. I do believe love is possible though in middle age.

Women happily and independently move on and grow, usually living alone. The men are still dependent, stuck in this situation with nothing, having evolved with a brain that seeks more than one mate for reproduction. They are on the prowl again. There is an option for men; polyamory. This is a good article on it and explains reasons and motivations that have been studied. However, I’m conjecturing it’s for younger men.

Why People Choose Polyamory

I suppose some women like polyamory but I don’t think it comes naturally to us. Personally, if I can’t find the right partner that suits me emotionally and spiritually I remain celibate but I don’t think most women do. I’ve done that for years at a time but never more than two. That sits very comfortably with me because I love deeply and never deny my feelings to suit men that are detached emotionally from sex.  So really, polyamory and celibacy are related in that, if you can’t find the right partner you do what you have to do; whatever you need. But we have to admit that love is a magnet for men and for women. When someone finally loves and understands you, you’ll go to the end of the world to be with them.

If women have emotional issues, we know how to deal with them, grow, and decide what we want; a new mate or remain single. Then we do whatever we want. If you take care of yourself, there are a million men who will chase you. You just have to pick one. But for friends or family who choose polyamory, this is a good article on the possible motivations so you can understand it better rather than judge it.

This particular quote really rang true to me.

“Polyamory can effectively skirt the need to face an addiction and the painful feelings it covers. However, polyamory can also be utilized as a healthy means of coping with psychological difficulties, pre-existing trauma, differences in sexual desire, and the garden variety erotic boredom so common in long-term monogamous marriages.”

I see so many clients with painful feelings that have not come to the surface and then it resides in their bodies. That directly affects their ability to bond and love a mate and have great sex. This is just one of the reasons for polyamory. And of course, the basis of that is the parents and time in utero, and the early childhood that formed the subconscious mind; especially the mother. I have compassion for men that were born to very wounded, unstable mothers. They don’t have much feminine principle strength within them to pull from. Girls of wounded mothers do; themselves. It’s a blessing to be born female, no matter what the Chinese think. The inner mother is our greatest guide and support on this planet.

For men, I can only hope that they find a female friend that loves and nurtures them just as they are so they can learn to love their body, take care of themselves and be empowered men. Women have no excuse. We are the strong ones on the planet hands down. It is our responsibility to lead, take care of ourselves and to teach healing by being a good example.

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