Heartset; If You Don’t Give Him Sex When He Suggests It, You May as Well Not Exist.


Use your intuition on this one. Keep in mind the men are double-minded on this issue and may not even be aware that they are. Meaning, you'll hear gender equity pronouncements and exhortations to be direct, honest, and yourself in public and on social media and another thing in private one-on-one. In private, if they …

Mindset; What does “In Your Face” Mean from a Woman?


This article is dated May this year. There are a few articles every year to remind us that this Victorian issue is alive and well. Some women just don't get it and they keep planting seeds of injustice in our minds and then we carry it with us wherever we go in society. I guess …

Heartset; We Can Get a Room…


Most women suck it up even though they don't want to right away. What if you haven't met him yet? What if you've just talked long distance for a long time? I have to get a vibe in person with a guy. I freakin' don't get why guys don't care about that! They should. I …

Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

Essay; Women Can Appear…


Women can appear critical but really be very accepting and patient in the long view. We're just natural teachers. Women can appear stoic and in control but our hearts are breaking. We're just used to not being respected or loved by men so we don't show our vulnerability. Women can act or seem weak but …

Essay; The Psychological Need to Infantalize Women in Relationships


The Infantilization of Adult, Professional Women This article is fairly recent; 2017. My intuition tells me we may be reaching the apex of patriarchal definitions of women's power as I'm noticing the younger women and men are not exactly absorbing the definition of roles the way we did in the hippie generation. That is to …

Re-Program; Beauty Bias


"You can't judge a book by its cover," my Dad said as he was backing out of the driveway of Grandma's house (his mother). I remember sitting in the backseat of our old Buick in the '70s as a little girl and this is one of the few things my father said off the cuff …

Essay; Physical Intuition Counts When You Fight


This is my theory anyway. When it comes to disagreement or a fight between partners, the physical relationship or sex dictates the way two people fight. This is a bit mysterious to me but I think we've always known that tension and competition between human beings are sexual. Right? It's not particularly conscious but in …

Re-Program; The Erroneous Line Drawn Between Science and Spirituality


Remember this Philosophy Tree I posted a few posts ago? I love this thing. So let's go back to the axiom at the top upon which all institutions of higher learning, all over the world, base their system of learning and degree-granting powers; Philosophy.   All subjects are philosophical. One of the great tenets of philosophy, …

Re-Program; Humans Weren’t Designed to be Rational and We’re Better Thinkers for it.


Trust your instincts "Despite the growing reliance on “big data” to game out every decision, it’s clear to anyone with a glimmer of self-awareness that humans are incapable of constantly rational thought. We simply don’t have the time or capacity to calculate the statistical probabilities and potential risks that come with every choice. But even …

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