Essay; The Psychological Need to Infantalize Women in Relationships


The Infantilization of Adult, Professional Women This article is fairly recent; 2017. My intuition tells me we may be reaching the apex of patriarchal definitions of women's power as I'm noticing the younger women and men are not exactly absorbing the definition of roles the way we did in the hippie generation. That is to …

Essay; The Sacrifice Model Shores up Patriarchy


My last post was about men as a subject, women as object and how that can pivot so that men are objectified as well under the paradigm of patriarchy.  That's not something that most women are aware of. First, let me remind my readers that neither male nor female dominance in civilization is ideal. We …

Heartset; Subject-Object in Life


  I'm on this planet to act, not be acted upon and that's not selfish. It's what we all need to do; act on behalf of ourselves in our own lives so we can unconditionally give to one another. Remember diagraming those sentences in school? Subject, verb, object. "What is the subject of the sentence …

Essay; Physical Intuition Counts When You Fight


This is my theory anyway. When it comes to disagreement or a fight between partners, the physical relationship or sex dictates the way two people fight. This is a bit mysterious to me but I think we've always known that tension and competition between human beings are sexual. Right? It's not particularly conscious but in …

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