Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

Essay; Misconceptions About Strong Women


Strong women have been broken and usually ripped to shreds and used by family, death, life, employers, and the opposite sex and don't sink to the bottom, use others cynically or crack up. They remain open, brave, active warriors on this very difficult planet that says "Love" all the time but doesn't do it. They …

Essay; an Expiration Date is Normal for Monogamy & Marriage


I've been married and divorced three times and I don't regret any of it. All three of my husbands were brilliant, adoring men who tend to be what I prefer. I'm not an easy woman to live with because I'm passionate, freedom-loving, willful, very physical, and intelligent. I'm pretty much a wild filly although when …

Essay; Define “Lover”. No Possession.


  It's a friendship middle ground where men are still free to roam and women are still free to roam emotionally and physically also because we don't need the ego validation of being the center of someone's world or possession. In fact, the last thing I want is someone to need me that much. It's …

Essay; Compromise With a Partner You Value


  There is much talk lately about never sacrificing yourself in an intimate relationship with a lover or a partner. I agree that it never works to lie or to give up so much of your time and what you want and need to do with your body and energy that you become very unhappy. …

Essay; Women Can Appear…


Women can appear critical but really be very accepting and patient in the long view. We're just natural teachers. Women can appear stoic and in control but our hearts are breaking. We're just used to not being respected or loved by men so we don't show our vulnerability. Women can act or seem weak but …

Essay; The Way to a Woman’s ….. is Through Her Heart


  This is a very enlightening article, but I'm not sure it's very realistic. It's ambitious I guess. Can a Man Be Friends with A Woman He's Sexually Attracted To? Over the past thirty years or so, there has been a consistent aspect of men I've observed repeatedly. They have the ability to very detached …

Essay; Women Attach Through Sex and Men Attach Through Emotional Bond


My intuition did a whammy on me last week and I sat on this for that long. "Women attach through sex/physical attention and men attach through emotional bond!" Ironic isn't it? You probably read that title and said, "Ok, we know that about women but men?" No one talks about men getting all warm and …

Essay; It’s Nice to Have Someone to Come Home To


We hear people say this all the time, I suppose especially during the holidays. However, I was just out of town at my Mom's for five days and I was thrilled to come home to the sanctuary I've created. I live alone, happily, and my business is here. I'm a quiet meditative person that loves …

Essay; Marketing to Women


Woman's Day magazine, in retrospect, is going to go down in history to be as puerile, provincial, and trivial as the ads for toasters, cars, and bras for women in the 1950's. They send me this rag free in the mail because I have a business. Occasionally I flip through it to get a laugh …

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