Essay; Sexual Shaming of Men


  I've been thinking about this issue for about a year now but it coalesced last night when I read a quite long, but well-thought-out blog post on this site that made light of how many women absorb shame from men when we have sex with them. Before that, we're fine, happy with ourselves, like …

Heartset; We Can Get a Room…


Most women suck it up even though they don't want to right away. What if you haven't met him yet? What if you've just talked long distance for a long time? I have to get a vibe in person with a guy. I freakin' don't get why guys don't care about that! They should. I …

Essay; Sexual Shaming of Men


  I've been thinking about this issue for about a year now but it coalesced last night when I read a quite long, but well-thought-out blog post on this site that made light of how many women absorb shame from men when we have sex with them. Before that, we're fine, happy with ourselves, like …

Essay; Misconceptions About Strong Women


Strong women have been broken and usually ripped to shreds and used by family, death, life, employers, and the opposite sex and don't sink to the bottom, use others cynically or crack up. They remain open, brave, active warriors on this very difficult planet that says "Love" all the time but doesn't do it. They …

Essay; So, The Men Are Just Being Friendly


It doesn't mean anything. When they have sex with you, they're just being friendly! I just woke up to this and cannot stop laughing over my espresso. All the trouble they have to go through to just to be friendly with a woman! "Why do we make it so complicated?!" they cry. Lmao. And I …

Essay; Women Can Appear…


Women can appear critical but really be very accepting and patient in the long view. We're just natural teachers. Women can appear stoic and in control but our hearts are breaking. We're just used to not being respected or loved by men so we don't show our vulnerability. Women can act or seem weak but …

Essay; …and that’s why there is no attachment


Professional sex workers are as important to men as professional therapists, counselors, and psychologists are to women. If relationships mean the world to most women, and they do, then they like therapists who help them navigate the choppy waters. Women are more complex than men. We are also given more freedom to express our emotions …

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