Prose; Skin


The shell of a turtle, a carapace, guards your continuance of electric water, straight to your brain, pulls your vibration down in by degrees. Your skin like a husk full of ridges on corn smells sweet, hard to pull off at the bottom, tassles so soft on my face, the smell of earth. Your arm was …

Prose; Adoration Be Damned


I'm stalking a case for spring in the autumn of my middle age. My assembled energy is diametrically opposite that of needing the validation of an amassed group of imposters pretending to agree so they can drink together later. It's not that I don't like the group, or that I don't occasionally have a very …

Heartset; Love, Affinity, Growth, Fun, & Destiny all needed for Intimacy


I have lost all of the mates I've had so much in common with; either through divorce or death equally. Neither of these things was within my control. We can control ourselves but you learn that you cannot control others. It's one of the big lessons of mating and being intimate with someone. Even if …

Essay; There is Something Emotionally “Off” with Guys


(I wrote this 2 years ago and I've come a long way since then realizing what the issues are. I believe the societal programming of men, expecting them to "man up" and be inhumane is hurting them and our whole society. It's patriarchy and it's oppressive for men too. The woman he's with has to …

Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

Essay; Friendship First When Dating


...or you can be sure she is using you for sex, which is what she assumes is the main thing you want and you both go down together. No one's life is improving there. If it's what you both want I guess it's fine but it's not what I want. I've decided I want the …

Essay; Women Feel the Need to be Like a Colorful Male Bird? Yes.


  I don't. But many women don't like to be ignored. Kind, smiling, pretty, plain women are preferred by a husband for marriage (hurrah!) But when it comes to fun, sex, and money, because of the sexual objectification of women, men prefer novice, meanness, titillation, color, and bitchiness. Women are just actors in men's psychodrama …

Essay; Compromise With a Partner You Value


  There is much talk lately about never sacrificing yourself in an intimate relationship with a lover or a partner. I agree that it never works to lie or to give up so much of your time and what you want and need to do with your body and energy that you become very unhappy. …

Everyday Spirituality; What is Your Lilith Placement?


This is actually pretty interesting. I woke up obsessed with the Lilith point position in my solar chart. I must have dreamt about it. Our solar charts are limited with regard to our destiny and personality because they only take into account 4D solar positions of where we are each positioned in this Matrix of …

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