Prose; Adoration Be Damned


Here is some of my prose from last year. Have a great weekend! I’m stalking a case for spring in the autumn of my middle age. My assembled energy is diametrically opposite that of needing the validation of an amassed group of imposters pretending to agree so they can drink together later. It’s not that …

Intimacy; Familiar Lover


It's so much easier to melt into your warm flesh because I know how you smell and your voice. It's just the nurturing comfort I need right now but you won't kiss me as you did before. Something is distinctly unfamiliar... You feel different in my bed, humidity on a dry. cold, windy day when …

Prose; Adoration Be Damned


I'm stalking a case for spring in the autumn of my middle age. My assembled energy is diametrically opposite that of needing the validation of an amassed group of imposters pretending to agree so they can drink together later. It's not that I don't like the group, or that I don't occasionally have a very …

Essay; Intimacy and Intuition


Intimacy means feelings and bonding with sex. It's true friendship, not territory, ownership, or marriage necessarily.  I have a feeling men would say sex is intimacy because that's as far as most of them go. Sex IS their feeling like hunger IS their feeling and for them, it is deep and significant. Anything physical is very emotional …

Essay; The Honest Middle Ground


My last post, I made the point that I'm not interested in fawning adoration that leads to possessive marriage. Every woman I know is at a different point with this but it has to do with emotional maturity and financial independence. Most women don't prefer marriage, from what I've gathered, unless they're getting some type …

Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

Essay; Friendship First When Dating


...or you can be sure she is using you for sex, which is what she assumes is the main thing you want and you both go down together. No one's life is improving there. If it's what you both want I guess it's fine but it's not what I want. I've decided I want the …

Essay; Friend-Zoning in Relationships


Spoken by a man. A woman would never say this and some men wouldn't say it. I think Oscar Wilde was old school. We've all been friend-zoned and it is possible. It's much easier to be friends with a gay man than a straight man and vice versa for men for obvious reasons. If a …

Essay; Define “Lover”. No Possession.


  It's a friendship middle ground where men are still free to roam and women are still free to roam emotionally and physically also because we don't need the ego validation of being the center of someone's world or possession. In fact, the last thing I want is someone to need me that much. It's …

Everyday Spirituality; What is Your Lilith Placement?


This is actually pretty interesting. I woke up obsessed with the Lilith point position in my solar chart. I must have dreamt about it. Our solar charts are limited with regard to our destiny and personality because they only take into account 4D solar positions of where we are each positioned in this Matrix of …

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