Essay; No Possession in Relationships


I guess the saying on the left could apply to women and to men but women are quite a bit more pre-meditated in choosing which men to talk to and then sleep with. Our lust does not control our rationality, much to men's dismay. Sometimes mine does but I'm working on curbing it now that …

Intimacy; Gray Area Between Relationship and Hookup?


I have to admit if I'm not looking for a committed relationship with a man I don't pay much attention to personality. I'm looking for an attraction for sex or a lover. Men are no different from women. Having touch and sex is a health issue. We all need it! I'm not throwing guilt in …

Intimacy; You’re not necessarily in a relationship just because you have sex.


  What I'm seeing men do is, instead of doing a series of hook-ups, they decide to be monogamous with one woman. Then the assumption is that is a relationship. No, it's not; not if you don't have feelings for one another. It's just an ongoing hookup which is not a relationship. You're in a …

Prose; Getting Lost


I loved that, as soon as I walked in the time-honored door, profusely late, you were concerned that I'd gotten lost, in trouble, or something else. Melt.  Kiss. Mmmmm.  That's the good stuff.  I'm going there and staying in that sterling feeling.  It's a crack memory in my brain.  No one can take it away.  …

Prose; Skin


The shell of a turtle, a carapace, guards your continuance of electric water, straight to your brain, pulls your vibration down in by degrees. Your skin like a husk full of ridges on corn smells sweet, hard to pull off at the bottom, tassles so soft on my face, the smell of earth. Your arm was …

Prose; Adoration Be Damned


I'm stalking a case for spring in the autumn of my middle age. My assembled energy is diametrically opposite that of needing the validation of an amassed group of imposters pretending to agree so they can drink together later. It's not that I don't like the group, or that I don't occasionally have a very …

Heartset; Love, Affinity, Growth, Fun, & Destiny all needed for Intimacy


I have lost all of the mates I've had so much in common with; either through divorce or death equally. Neither of these things was within my control. We can control ourselves but you learn that you cannot control others. It's one of the big lessons of mating and being intimate with someone. Even if …

Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

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