Heartset; Body Image and Beaches in California; It Can Be Brutal


"Here's to Michigan untanned, man-from-Glad skin, chubby bodies that keep us warm in the winter, and loving our neighbor as ourselves." I'm home, back from a mini-vacation in San Francisco, California. I had a good time but I hated my body while I was there. I was trying to use my intuition to figure it …

Essay; Do We Really Need to Depend on a Partner Intimately?


It is very true that we are interdependent on one another in the second layer of society; fireman, government workers, health care workers, shop owners, food producers, mail folks, airline pilots and workers, taxi drivers; really an endless list. These are generally people who could be considered strangers or acquaintances in our local area. None …

Essay; Men and Sex. Not the Same as Women! Polyamory vs. Celibacy


The male animal has been domesticated and it's not all pretty. I think of that right-wing show I can't stand, "Last Man Standing" with Tim Allen as the star. I am at a unique vantage point right now on this issue as a single, 56-year-old, financially independent woman. The societal Disney pictures are that I'm …

Body Truth; A Pretty Good Brownie


I had a very good brownie yesterday with the right level of height so that I was able to observe my trip pretty well. This was purely experimental as I am the kind of person that fully enjoys the sobriety of my conscious mind to do my work because I'm intelligent. There is no substitute …

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