Essay; Shaming Intimate Human Feeling as a Tool of Patriarchy; Separation and Control


Why Patriarchy Is Not About Men By Miki Kashtan Ph.D. says,  "In the European historical lineage, which later affected many other cultures through colonial contact, the shift to separation and control coincided with making paternity central. (Instead of matrilineal descent) How paternity came to be central after it wasn’t for 97% of the existence of Homo …

Essay; Men and Sex. Not the Same as Women! Polyamory vs. Celibacy


The male animal has been domesticated and it's not all pretty. I think of that right-wing show I can't stand, "Last Man Standing" with Tim Allen as the star. I am at a unique vantage point right now on this issue as a single, 56-year-old, financially independent woman. The societal Disney pictures are that I'm …

Heartset; Let Your Heart Break


Why? Why should we let our hearts break? Because the release of that hard emotion, the bitterness, the layers of cynicism and resentment of everyone who has ever wronged us, really badly on this dang planet where families are put on a pedestal and should not be, where marriage and love are put on a …

Re-Program; Strong, Vocal People Tend to be Ignored in America. Complicit, Weak People Rule


Strong independent, intelligent people are not affirmed and supported as much as weak ones are.  I've seen it time again.  Those that wear the mask of distress get attention much quicker than the strong ones. This may swing back and forth, meaning, people aren't always sure what they're attracted to if they're ego based on their …

Re-Program; “The Science Delusion” by Rupert Sheldrake


Rupert Sheldrake relentlessly asks mainstream so-called objective science to balance itself with its nemesis; the relational feminine principle; the dragon lady. He does not say this in the book but he alludes to it in every chapter. I'm not sure he realizes it, but when he refers to the subjective, open inquiry, the dark cave, …

Body Truth; “Molecules of Emotions”, Chapter 12-Healing Feeling


Chapter 12, page 250; She's in Southern California now hanging out with the progressive, spiritual folks. "Here in California there seems to be room for a consideration of the spiritual dimension of health, which can encompass such elements as prayer, energy flow, distant healing, and psychic phenomena, to name but a few." The time period …

Re-Program; Deportations


My blood was boiling on a rampage today about Trump ordering the ICE to deport people in five states until... I remembered they called Obama the King of Deportation after he called for 3 million people to be deported. It's amazing how easy it is to find fault in your enemy and forget that an …

Essay; “The Hillary Doctrine”


It is a grievous fact that Hillary has dropped into the shadows somewhat since the election was un-democratically stolen from her, but I still want to talk about her.  She won.  Never let that die.  Never.  She won the election of 2016. However, just as she was announcing her candidacy, my mate Michael (deceased now …

Essay; No Thank You #2- I’d Rather Have This. ~ Response to Dina Leygerman, 2017 The Women’s Movement


I have a boundary to set with the commentators on #1 of this post.  I am an extremely open-minded person that listens to how people feel for a living.  I've been doing it for twenty years. You are welcome to comment, of course, on the ideas I put forward.  But I will cut you off …

Essay; Third Wave Feminism. You could Unclench your Fist, Open your hand and Meditate to Bring Real Change.


This dates me.  Women's values and perspective change with the new generation.  I was born in 1963 so I am at the tail end of the hippie generation (1945-1965). I've always seen the imbalance in power between the genders.  First and second-wave feminism really helped bring light to the problem and I have no problem …

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