Lifestyle of an Intuitive; Staying in My Own Truth While Observing Others


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Over the last year or so the confusion has increased around those who know me. They can see I’m doing really well and thriving but they don’t know why. I’m alone a lot and perfectly happy that way. Now that I’ve realized I was raised by my family and society to absorb, mimic, and look for approval from other humans and experienced how shallow and unfulfilling that is, I’m in a more content place. I don’t do any of it. I stay in my own body space, my energy within which I love, and never absorb others even though I do observe their drama.

I’m finally accepting that not everyone is as empathetic, sensitive to energy, smells, noise and toxic energy as I am nor do I expect them to be. But I also can’t change to be insensitive like them. Maybe some would say they are desensitized but I’m not desensitized. I am rationally detached from it though.

The thing is, my feet are squarely on the ground, I have a regular sleep schedule, I’m very healthy, I don’t party, I see a friend one on one for lunch, I earn money with a skill I love, I only take one nap and feel happy frequently but not too much as that’s unbalanced, I’m fine going out in public (no crowds though), and I pay my bills. By societies shallow definitions I have my s*t together but to people who know me, I’m odd. I feel odd because I don’t know anyone else who is like me.

Being an intuitive means you have access to a constant flow of information from this dimension and the ether from which to process. That statement right there sounds odd but there are millions of people like me that feel like a radio tower. I’ve been like this for as long as I can remember. We still need to fit in though to a certain degree after all. I turn it off all the time and focus here.

One of my friends said, “You’re just like everybody else Lisa,” but he’s never met me. We’ve known each other for a year via phone and social media. He doesn’t know me well enough to say that to me. I’m not like everybody else. No intuitive is like anyone else. I’m different. Halfway through my life, I’m working on being very comfortable in my own skin and not internalizing the plethora of outside information coming to me all the time. It’s not an easy project and one that’s taken years for me to accomplish. I’m a sponge! I could sit in a restaurant and read every single person in it and tell what was going on with their body, etc. What a waste of energy! I’d be bombed out and…I’m not being paid to do it. I do it for a living, partially so I’m not doing it in my down time. I have very firm boundaries, a high fence even, helped by the Universe because I’m working for them. I’m not working emotionally or spiritually for my family, a mate, my son, the public, or an employer. That makes me quite different right there.

While I care for all sentient life, I’m not attached to it. I’ve been so close to death and had so much death happen around me that I’m at peace with whatever comes and try to be as creative and free with every day as I can be. I’m happy to be here and enjoy the constant changes on earth. This latest adventure, climate change is a doozy. I don’t believe anyone is listening and really processing what we’re in for. Most people are in denial. I’m not and my antenna is up.

I do watch the news and attend to social media but I’m realizing that to get my writing done and see patients and pay bills, I need to cut that back. As it is I only watch T.V. one hour max at night. On the weekend I have time to enjoy a Netflix documentary or two.

You see from my Zoosk posts that I try to date and live as normally as possible but I’m not normal. The online stuff is bizarre. I have to be vigilant and take care of myself, not let people use and take advantage of me and be very, very firm with men who would love to take my physical energy and have it for lunch for their sex-hungry souls. I’m so sorry. There is only one man I want to share that with; my twin flame.

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Empaths Should Not Absorb Energy; Just Read The Energy.


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I’ve been an empath my entire life and have paid my bills by doing it for twenty years. I’m a professional.  I’ve always known it’s not necessary or healthy to absorb someone else’s energy no matter what you do for a living. Healthy, firm boundaries are vital in every aspect of life. The definition of an empath is;

a person with the paranormal ability to apprehend the mental or emotional state of another individual.

Notice that there is no verb “absorb” in the definition. The verb is “apprehend” meaning to comprehend or go after. Also, I don’t actually believe it’s paranormal to be empathic. It’s just normal. Normally adjusted humans have empathy for living things. Of course, we live in a world that has a new normal and are coming to the end of an age called the kali yuga (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kali_Yuga) so it does seem that normal empathy has declined due to brainwashing. Most humans pay more attention to what’s going on outside than inside their bodies and minds. That creates toxic energy out of alignment with their own soul energy and causes illness. What has also declined are healthy boundaries because of invasion of privacy as a new normal and social media.

I wonder if the problem is that too many empaths don’t know how to rationally read energy and people’s bodies? I’m a psychic medium, bodyworker and Reiki Master as well and can pick up signals from another dimension from another soul connected to the client. The client’s emotions, however, are in this dimension and vital for their learning. If they are not already aware of their own feelings, I bring it up. How do I pick up their feelings without absorbing them?.

We are all able to read emotions like reading a book or reading thoughts. It’s just information. I would no more want to feel another person’s feelings than I would want to think their thoughts! They don’t belong to me! You’re going into energy that isn’t yours and we are not called to do that as lightworkers. If you’re a lightworker, there is no absorbing and then offloading the energy either onto the earth or animals or others. Just don’t do it in the first place. Just read it, don’t absorb it. The only time I absorb another’s feelings is if I personally resonate with it in my own soul and they are a friend. If I start to resonate with clients feelings I stop. I hope you do too.

 

 

 

The Greek word Psyche means Intuition


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In Greek mythology, the word and name Psyche means intuition. It doesn’t mean mind, analysis, rationality, psychology, or psychiatry. The fact is both males and females have intuition but we need to talk about our higher minds as intuition. There is no other purpose for knowing and understanding emotions which manifest in the body unless we’re going to move them up to intuition. Intuition stimulates the higher mind to work in tandem with rationality which is slower. It’s the right and left brains which needs to be equal.

In Greek mythology, Apollo and Dionysus are both sons of Zeus. Apollo is the god of the sun, of rational thinking and order, and appeals to logic, prudence, and purity. Dionysus is the god of wine and dance, of irrationality and chaos, and appeals to emotions and instincts. Both of these characters have become a little problematic for our Psyche or Intuition.

It’s problematic in that we have the degradation of Psyche or Intuition. Even though at the end of her saga which was my last post, Zeus made her immortal. His son Apollo has tried to eclipse her since. In the national divinity of the Greeks, Apollo has been variously recognized as a god of music, truth, and prophecy, healing, the sun and light, plague, poetry, and more. Apollo is the son of Zeus and Leto and has a twin sister, the chaste huntress Artemis.

That sort of explains Apollo’s hyper-masculinity. His twin sister Artemis was the goddess of the hunt and was probably a better shot than him and likely a chaste lesbian. This is just playful conjecture on my part which I feel free to do with myth. Nevertheless, everything in Greek thinking has permeated Western society.

How did Intuition come to be degraded in submission to western, male, rational assessment? Psychology Today explains,

“Intuition is a mental matching game. The brain takes in a situation, does a very quick search of its files, and then finds its best analog among the stored sprawl of memories and knowledge.

From there, you’re able to listen to intuition and develop a “hunch” about a certain situation.

No. Intuition is not a hunch. It’s the psyche knowing what the truth is. It’s the higher mind, many times connected to Spirit or Source, guiding your path. It’s not just a hunch if you interview professional readers and intuitives. We literally can see the energy, events, and people around someone like a movie and tell the client what they are creating or drawing to them or who or what is still hanging around in their space. Then they can change it if they wish now that they’re aware of it. My clients and millions of others always confirm what we see so we know we’re right. Everyone can do this for themselves if they’d open their minds and allow the connection. But there are so many societal biases and fears that most people don’t. It’s a mistake.

It is very insulting to call it “fortune telling”. You create your life in every aspect and we’re just seeing what you’re creating. There is something to destiny but the details of your destiny are chosen by you. This is very important and very empowering as opposed to a therapist telling you that you can’t change your past. We believe that in a way, you can. You can re-vision it to your liking. They may say, “But that’s denial”. Yes. Deny negative circumstances that you ARE aware of and did happen, that you are not denying happened, to remain in your psyche. Stop talking about it, feeling it, and defining yourself by it! Decide for yourself that you no longer need it in this dimension or the people who perpetrated it. You can cut them off if it was very, very bad and I encourage people to do that as long as you’re really done with it. Create something new for yourself that is balanced with who you are and what you want that includes your intuition and rational planning.

There is no need to go off the deep end with emotions or get dramatic about anything. The way to do that is to take care of the body and nutrition, make sure you are grounded in the body and have some structure to your self-care habits especially if you were not raised to take care of your body yourself. That’s very common so again, no need to complain about it. When it comes to physical care, overstep the emotions and just do it no matter what mood you’re in. That re-wires the brain. That’s where you start and any good fitness coach, medical massage therapist, P.T., or Reiki therapist can help you with the bodywork and the rampage of loving your body. I do that all the time with myself and my patients.

Remember that paying for and seeking help with your new life is money well invested and not a sign of weakness but strength. That said, you still have to do most of the work yourself.

What is Daily Life Like as an Intuitive?


It’s an adventure; like surfing a wave. Surfers know the water well so they are generally not afraid. They are skilled athletes. I feel that way as well when I surf the ether. I am a skilled psychic intuitive. It is something that comes naturally to me; something I was born to do. Surfers don’t know what the weather will be on the ocean that day and do their best to take a reading, watch the weather report and pay attention to ocean cycles. I do the same thing in the cosmos with solar system line-ups and Tzolkin Harmonic line-ups. I’ve been able to read the synchronicities for 29 years now and there are definite patterns that make a materialistic focus silly in light of the proven holographic projection that is the visual world. “Row, row, row your boat” is literally true. Life is but a dream and intuitives and artists know it first hand because we walk between worlds to be of service to all life on the planet. It is a joy.

I keep up with cutting edge science and quantum physics because that is where the brightest and best people are working; not medicine, not 3D biology, not technology. Math, Physics and quantum computing are where it’s at; in addition to those who study the power of the mind, telepathy, meditation, PSI and the Paranormal.

The Conscious Universe

I read, “The Conscious Universe, The Scientific Truth of Psychic Phenomena” by Dean Radin, Ph.D. in 1997 and appreciated it so much! He’s got many books.

My body and mind (same thing) are like a cell phone tower or radio tower picking up universal signals from the universal circuits. Now, that is really too vast for one person, although I could sit and do that all day; like blogging a universal weather report. But human beings are not advanced enough to appreciate or understand what’s going on in the Universe much less on Earth. We’re kind of early on here in our evolution.

So I have chosen to help individuals, and most lightworkers do because ONE PERSON in a family who opens their eyes, heart, and mind and gets love, forgiveness, eternity, the soul, Source, and loving themselves creates a very powerful domino effect around them. That is where I’m vigilant. Love at all times becomes boots on the ground call to hugging arms on this planet if you ever have a question on how to proceed. So I do one-on-one readings for people who contact me and I love doing it. The number one thing I get at is to love yourself first. Then your relationships will fall into place. You cannot hope to get your life on a good path if you continually focus outside of yourself.

I’m not a channel, I’m a mediator and reader between Spirit, or the relative passed on, and the client, either on the table or who I’m doing a reading for. We all choose who we’re connected to in this life or the next based on who we love. We are not connected to those we do not love and that is actually detrimental to your energy and your soul growth to try to force that. The people you love come through loud and clear when I do a reading.

I guess it’s not that different than having a family dinner. You’re hanging out with the clients’ family and friends or just one of their family or friend and I’m happy to help. We are all here for each other and need to function as a community of Life, not just on Earth but in the Universe. Bless All Beings in Light and Love.