Intimacy; You’re not necessarily in a relationship just because you have sex.


  What I'm seeing men do is, instead of doing a series of hook-ups, they decide to be monogamous with one woman. Then the assumption is that is a relationship. No, it's not; not if you don't have feelings for one another. It's just an ongoing hookup which is not a relationship. You're in a …

Essay; Intimacy and Intuition


Intimacy means feelings and bonding with sex. It's true friendship, not territory, ownership, or marriage necessarily.  I have a feeling men would say sex is intimacy because that's as far as most of them go. Sex IS their feeling like hunger IS their feeling and for them, it is deep and significant. Anything physical is very emotional …

Essay; The Honest Middle Ground


My last post, I made the point that I'm not interested in fawning adoration that leads to possessive marriage. Every woman I know is at a different point with this but it has to do with emotional maturity and financial independence. Most women don't prefer marriage, from what I've gathered, unless they're getting some type …

Essay; Women Feel the Need to be Like a Colorful Male Bird? Yes.


  I don't. But many women don't like to be ignored. Kind, smiling, pretty, plain women are preferred by a husband for marriage (hurrah!) But when it comes to fun, sex, and money, because of the sexual objectification of women, men prefer novice, meanness, titillation, color, and bitchiness. Women are just actors in men's psychodrama …

Essay; The Way to a Woman’s ….. is Through Her Heart


  This is a very enlightening article, but I'm not sure it's very realistic. It's ambitious I guess. Can a Man Be Friends with A Woman He's Sexually Attracted To? Over the past thirty years or so, there has been a consistent aspect of men I've observed repeatedly. They have the ability to very detached …

%d bloggers like this: