Essay; People Are Who They Are


One of the things I think we all know as an adult is that you can't change anyone. But it's funny that we still try. I'm still single, not even a boyfriend and I'd say I'm content this way for now. However, I still have men DM'ing me quite often in all of the social …

Re-Program; Beauty Bias


"You can't judge a book by its cover," my Dad said as he was backing out of the driveway of Grandma's house (his mother). I remember sitting in the backseat of our old Buick in the '70s as a little girl and this is one of the few things my father said off the cuff …

Essay; The Sacrifice Model Shores up Patriarchy


My last post was about men as a subject, women as object and how that can pivot so that men are objectified as well under the paradigm of patriarchy.  That's not something that most women are aware of. First, let me remind my readers that neither male nor female dominance in civilization is ideal. We …

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