Prose; Adoration Be Damned


I'm stalking a case for spring in the autumn of my middle age. My assembled energy is diametrically opposite that of needing the validation of an amassed group of imposters pretending to agree so they can drink together later. It's not that I don't like the group, or that I don't occasionally have a very …

Essay; The Honest Middle Ground


My last post, I made the point that I'm not interested in fawning adoration that leads to possessive marriage. Every woman I know is at a different point with this but it has to do with emotional maturity and financial independence. Most women don't prefer marriage, from what I've gathered, unless they're getting some type …

Essay; So, The Men Are Just Being Friendly


It doesn't mean anything. When they have sex with you, they're just being friendly! I just woke up to this and cannot stop laughing over my espresso. All the trouble they have to go through to just to be friendly with a woman! "Why do we make it so complicated?!" they cry. Lmao. And I …

Essay; The Way to a Woman’s ….. is Through Her Heart


  This is a very enlightening article, but I'm not sure it's very realistic. It's ambitious I guess. Can a Man Be Friends with A Woman He's Sexually Attracted To? Over the past thirty years or so, there has been a consistent aspect of men I've observed repeatedly. They have the ability to very detached …

Essay; …and that’s why there is no attachment


Professional sex workers are as important to men as professional therapists, counselors, and psychologists are to women. If relationships mean the world to most women, and they do, then they like therapists who help them navigate the choppy waters. Women are more complex than men. We are also given more freedom to express our emotions …

Essay; Male Sexual Fantasy…that’s how you bond?


  More information is hitting me today via my intuition about certain men I know and their behavior. I've been trying to figure out how men's minds work for years now and never gave it much thought when I was younger and had no brothers so now I'm playing catch up. I know you're more …

Essay; Marketing to Women


Woman's Day magazine, in retrospect, is going to go down in history to be as puerile, provincial, and trivial as the ads for toasters, cars, and bras for women in the 1950's. They send me this rag free in the mail because I have a business. Occasionally I flip through it to get a laugh …

Heartset; What is Connection?


A connection is an affinity, ease of communication, an understanding of another person, a desire to get to know someone better, the real possibility of a lasting friendship, and for women, respect. For men, it's a huge turn-off to contemplate respecting a woman although most won't admit it. A connection does not denote love, being …

Body Truth; An Addict’s Ability to Project is Prolific


My experience and intuition tell me that this happens when a person isn't in control of their own body, habits, and life. It's ultimately a health issue and usually tied to addiction. I grant that at the root of addictive behavior are deep emotional wounds, likely from childhood and unconscious or subconscious mind, and that …

Essay; Possession in a Relationship is a Double Standard


Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com This issue has always befuddled me as I observe myself and others bonding with a partner for as long as I can remember. It's the double standard regarding monogamy for women and men. No one is telling the truth. Men portray a desire for novelty, a polyamorous lifestyle but they …

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