Essay; Sexual Shaming of Men


  I've been thinking about this issue for about a year now but it coalesced last night when I read a quite long, but well-thought-out blog post on this site that made light of how many women absorb shame from men when we have sex with them. Before that, we're fine, happy with ourselves, like …

Essay; Intimacy and Intuition


Intimacy means feelings and bonding with sex. It's true friendship, not territory, ownership, or marriage necessarily.  I have a feeling men would say sex is intimacy because that's as far as most of them go. Sex IS their feeling like hunger IS their feeling and for them, it is deep and significant. Anything physical is very emotional …

Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

Essay; Sexual Shaming of Men


  I've been thinking about this issue for about a year now but it coalesced last night when I read a quite long, but well-thought-out blog post on this site that made light of how many women absorb shame from men when we have sex with them. Before that, we're fine, happy with ourselves, like …

Essay; Platonic Love? Which One?


  Where does the term platonic love come from?   "It is named after Greek philosopher Plato, though the philosopher never used the term himself. Platonic love as devised by Plato concerns rising through levels of closeness to wisdom and true beauty from carnal attraction to individual bodies to attraction to souls, and eventually, union with the truth." He was also a …

Essay; So, The Men Are Just Being Friendly


It doesn't mean anything. When they have sex with you, they're just being friendly! I just woke up to this and cannot stop laughing over my espresso. All the trouble they have to go through to just to be friendly with a woman! "Why do we make it so complicated?!" they cry. Lmao. And I …

Essay; With No Contact, The Attraction Wears Off


I believe studies have shown this about women. The initial hormone high of attraction falls away if there is no contact, no talking (hearing his voice), you don't see him and you receive no communication. That has been the case here. Because I'm intuitive, that has all kicked in very strong and I recommend following …

Essay; Male Sexual Fantasy…that’s how you bond?


  More information is hitting me today via my intuition about certain men I know and their behavior. I've been trying to figure out how men's minds work for years now and never gave it much thought when I was younger and had no brothers so now I'm playing catch up. I know you're more …

Essay; Marketing to Women


Woman's Day magazine, in retrospect, is going to go down in history to be as puerile, provincial, and trivial as the ads for toasters, cars, and bras for women in the 1950's. They send me this rag free in the mail because I have a business. Occasionally I flip through it to get a laugh …

Essay; Male Intuition and the Sacred Masculine


  I feel like apologizing for always blogging on the feminine intuition, feminist issues and the need for women to empower themselves in the midst of the patriarchal paradigm by using their intuition. But I'm not going to because...I'm a woman! I don't have a man's perspective on what it means to be a man …

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