Heartset; Intimacy balances out by…


For women, having sex. For men, talking. That sounds ironic, doesn't it? If you already know each other, you've already been together, you've already communicated quite a bit, the way to bring intimacy equilibrium back to the relationship is instinctually in this manner. It sounds odd because the assumption is men always want to have …

Essay; Intimacy and Intuition


Intimacy means feelings and bonding with sex. It's true friendship, not territory, ownership, or marriage necessarily.  I have a feeling men would say sex is intimacy because that's as far as most of them go. Sex IS their feeling like hunger IS their feeling and for them, it is deep and significant. Anything physical is very emotional …

Essay; The Honest Middle Ground


My last post, I made the point that I'm not interested in fawning adoration that leads to possessive marriage. Every woman I know is at a different point with this but it has to do with emotional maturity and financial independence. Most women don't prefer marriage, from what I've gathered, unless they're getting some type …

Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

Essay; Platonic Love? Which One?


  Where does the term platonic love come from?   "It is named after Greek philosopher Plato, though the philosopher never used the term himself. Platonic love as devised by Plato concerns rising through levels of closeness to wisdom and true beauty from carnal attraction to individual bodies to attraction to souls, and eventually, union with the truth." He was also a …

Essay; Women Feel the Need to be Like a Colorful Male Bird? Yes.


  I don't. But many women don't like to be ignored. Kind, smiling, pretty, plain women are preferred by a husband for marriage (hurrah!) But when it comes to fun, sex, and money, because of the sexual objectification of women, men prefer novice, meanness, titillation, color, and bitchiness. Women are just actors in men's psychodrama …

Essay; Compromise With a Partner You Value


  There is much talk lately about never sacrificing yourself in an intimate relationship with a lover or a partner. I agree that it never works to lie or to give up so much of your time and what you want and need to do with your body and energy that you become very unhappy. …

Essay; So, The Men Are Just Being Friendly


It doesn't mean anything. When they have sex with you, they're just being friendly! I just woke up to this and cannot stop laughing over my espresso. All the trouble they have to go through to just to be friendly with a woman! "Why do we make it so complicated?!" they cry. Lmao. And I …

Essay; Women Can Be Loving with Sexual Energy But Only if It’s Reciprocated


Today the rubber meets the road and as I was working out, Spirit got to me. Some say God or Source. I pride myself on listening for spiritual guidance so that I'm always in my power and integrity so that's what some of this information is. If it's not true for you, just leave it …

Essay; With No Contact, The Attraction Wears Off


I believe studies have shown this about women. The initial hormone high of attraction falls away if there is no contact, no talking (hearing his voice), you don't see him and you receive no communication. That has been the case here. Because I'm intuitive, that has all kicked in very strong and I recommend following …

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