Intimacy; Hip to Be a Ho?


It's all socially permissible and fine for women and men to be promiscuous now. Everything has changed in the last few years. I include men in the Ho category. In fact they seem to feel privileged to be so detatched. I find that doubtful. Women my age are as hot as ever and the younger …

Intimacy; You’re not necessarily in a relationship just because you have sex.


  What I'm seeing men do is, instead of doing a series of hook-ups, they decide to be monogamous with one woman. Then the assumption is that is a relationship. No, it's not; not if you don't have feelings for one another. It's just an ongoing hookup which is not a relationship. You're in a …

Intimacy; dogs or gods?


Who could resist that adorable puppy coming running toward them for attention? There ya have it. That's the curse women are under with cute men. I've interviewed women and they agree. When a man is really cute he's very hard to resist!  It's terrible. We just want to love em' up and feed them, make …

Men are Dramatic in Action and Women are Dramatic in their Speech


How many bazillion times have you heard a guy say "No drama!"? They act like they give women no drama. Men are over the top!!! Men get emotional physically and sometimes verbally. Their actions are too dramatic. That's the testosterone and they put WOMEN through the wringer not being able to calm down their testosterone …

Heartset; Wounded Men and the Women Who Take Control of Them Instead of Empowering Them


  I guess I thought I might be getting into a rut, defining myself by my work and my private practice but I'm now thinking it's FAR more important that I focus on that than finding a new mate. I'm not lonely. I love sleeping alone and don't wax nostalgic over a man stomping up …

Heartset; Men Blame Women for Giving in to Sex if the Man Really Wants Connection


How are we supposed to know off the bat that a man is truly interested  in us? He'll behave like a gentleman and not a horny dog in the alley. He'll dress nice and take us on a date. The same could be true of a woman. She wants to know who you are not …

Heartset; Three Types of Heterosexual Relationships


The only one of these that is a real relationship is #3. The first two are sexual objectification. But by most people's standards, #1 is a real relationship and is considered prison by many men but socially increases his status. Really, any man who prefers #2 will say he doesn't want a relationship with a …

Mindset; The Black Widow Woman MYTH


I've been accused three times, with men I've dated, liked or known, of being a black widow and it's ridiculous and offensive.  I am literally a widow (twice) and a single woman but I'm not analogous to a black widow spider! Black Widow refers to the arachnid female spider called the Black Widow. It refers …

Intuition; Empathic, Intuitive, Creative Straight Men


I don't think anyone knows they exist. Yet that's the only type of man I've ever partnered with and in addition, they are super intelligent. Talk about freaks and geeks. They are right up my alley and this planet is very stressful and nye on impossible for these men. This has hit my consciousness because …

Intuition and Love


This one floored me when I saw it. What do you think? The first question I asked myself was "Why is this true?" The quote is attributed to Graham Greene. There are several to be found online and I'm not sure which one he is but those listed are all artists of some type. I …

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