Intimacy; Gray Area Between Relationship and Hookup?


I have to admit, if I'm not looking for a committed relationship with a man I don't pay much attention to personality. I'm looking for attraction for sex or a lover. Men are no different with women. Having touch and sex is a health issue. We all need it! I'm not throwing guilt in there …

Intimacy; You’re not necessarily in a relationship just because you have sex.


  What I'm seeing men do is, instead of doing a series of hook-ups, they decide to be monogamous with one woman. Then the assumption is that is a relationship. No, it's not; not if you don't have feelings for one another. It's just an ongoing hookup which is not a relationship. You're in a …

Heartset; A #Female #Intimacy Myth Revealed


There's a myth I keep running into whenever I really like a man, we know each other and are friends, I'm attracted to him and want to have sex with him. His assumption is, given all of the desires I've listed above, I'll fall in love with him or I am in love with him and …

Heartset; What Is Your Motivation for Being in a Relationship?


I can only speak for myself but maybe you can relate. In order to achieve intimacy, you or I, it takes a bit of self-inventory. The consequences of not doing it are more trouble and heartbreak and none of us needs that. The inventory consists of; *How am a feeling about a new partner? (positive, …

Heartset; “I love you”


Mmmm, brownies are so good...for a while. What some people mean by “I love you” is "I want to consume you like a delicious brownie." But in truth, they are envious, jealous, and covet everything you’ve worked hard to become, and paid an earthly price for and want a piece of it. It's delicious! It’s …

Prose; Spiralling Paradox


The gravity of each individual Mind pulls us and keeps us in the body, giving off a specific gift, look, flavor, color, and feel. Individual cells dance with electromagnetic charge set in motion by our feelings and thoughts. Complete...we can co-create just as we are right now. Yet gravity still makes us spiral as One …

Heartset; Love, Affinity, Growth, Fun, & Destiny all needed for Intimacy


I have lost all of the mates I've had so much in common with; either through divorce or death equally. Neither of these things was within my control. We can control ourselves but you learn that you cannot control others. It's one of the big lessons of mating and being intimate with someone. Even if …

Heartset; Inspiration Is Just Competition


  We are our own best friend or our own worst enemy. Sometimes being inspired by someone just means you want to compete with them. Competition is a bit of an illusion because there is plenty to go around and you can't compare two people's lives to each other. Thus, there is no real competition. We're …

Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

Heartset; Who has your back?


If you didn't need human permission to be born and you don't need human permission to die, why do you think you need human permission to live your life as you see fit, or that it is at least a good expansive experience for you? The same Energy that got you here and helps you …

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