Essay; You Might Not Be Looking For a Relationship but Doesn’t Everyone Want to Love and Be Loved?


I wonder sometimes if women and men mean, "I'm not looking to be possessed or to possess anyone." when they say, "I don't want a relationship." Words are important. When it comes to attraction, the words one uses matter. This is why marriage always ends. In truth, no one can possess anyone. We belong to …

Essay; The Sacrifice Model Shores up Patriarchy


My last post was about men as a subject, women as object and how that can pivot so that men are objectified as well under the paradigm of patriarchy.  That's not something that most women are aware of. First, let me remind my readers that neither male nor female dominance in civilization is ideal. We …

Heartset; Subject-Object in Life


  I'm on this planet to act, not be acted upon and that's not selfish. It's what we all need to do; act on behalf of ourselves in our own lives so we can unconditionally give to one another. Remember diagraming those sentences in school? Subject, verb, object. "What is the subject of the sentence …

Prose; I Make My Bed


  I make my bed as though someone other than me might want to lay on it to relax… Doubtful. Fans, fanatics, stalkers, jealous husbands, jealous siblings, errant preachers, starry-eyed parents, and students all seeking some higher bedding more like a cloud…nothing low to ground where I am. Doubtful. It’s so…fake. “THIS is who you …

Heartset; Breath controls Feelings


via Alone/lonely I was just inspired by Cristian Mihai's most recent blog today about being alone. I shared the link above. Please read it if you have not. I actually just blogged on "I'm Alone Now" just a week or so ago too because my nineteen-year-old son just left the house. I told Cristian that …

Heartset; There’s No One Left. I’m Alone.


It has finally happened after twenty years. I live alone in my house, no men, no noise, no demands for food or rides, this or that, "Mom can you help me!" "C' mon, let's go to the store". My son's dad died two years ago...the last time I saw him was Christmas Day. Five days …

Body Truth; “Molecules of Emotions”, Chapter 12-Healing Feeling


Chapter 12, page 250; She's in Southern California now hanging out with the progressive, spiritual folks. "Here in California there seems to be room for a consideration of the spiritual dimension of health, which can encompass such elements as prayer, energy flow, distant healing, and psychic phenomena, to name but a few." The time period …

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