Essay; Sexual Shaming of Men


  I've been thinking about this issue for about a year now but it coalesced last night when I read a quite long, but well-thought-out blog post on this site that made light of how many women absorb shame from men when we have sex with them. Before that, we're fine, happy with ourselves, like …

Prose; Getting Lost


I loved that, as soon as I walked in the time-honored door, profusely late, you were concerned that I'd gotten lost, in trouble, or something else. Melt.  Kiss. Mmmmm.  That's the good stuff.  I'm going there and staying in that sterling feeling.  It's a crack memory in my brain.  No one can take it away.  …

Prose; Sex as Source Energy


Authority, document, Testament, creed Usurps my Love and all Earth deeds Nurture, Earth, yearning passion, lust absent fondness, potent throbs concuss. Strength, virility, manly vigor, force, potent beat, vacant blow, profuse throbbing course Pound THE BOOK? It's the loudest? Leave my heart on the floor. You are absent, your soul knows no swell or full …

Mindset; Why Do People Hate Smart Women? | Psychology Today


This is another great article on this topic only this time the comments are super revealing. Enquiring minds need to know... lol. Just scroll quickly to the top to see the full article. Psychology Today-Why Do People Hate Smart Women This is a comment by S.C. on this great article; "Being an incomplete female, the …

Essay; Women’s and Men’s Brains are Biologically Different


It's Biology, Not Socialization “At the time, it seemed clear to me that any between-sex differences in thinking abilities were due to socialization practices, artifacts, and mistakes in the research, and bias and prejudice. ... After reviewing a pile of journal articles that stood several feet high and numerous books and book chapters that dwarfed …

Prose; Rear View Mirror


I was looking straight ahead, as usual, driving my car. I very rarely look at the car behind me in my rearview mirror. For some reason, this time I did. She was alone in her car with sunglasses on.  I tried not to stare because somehow, I could tell she was upset. I must have …

Essay; There is Something Emotionally “Off” with Guys


(I wrote this 2 years ago and I've come a long way since then realizing what the issues are. I believe the societal programming of men, expecting them to "man up" and be inhumane is hurting them and our whole society. It's patriarchy and it's oppressive for men too. The woman he's with has to …

Heartset; Breath controls Feelings


via Alone/lonely I was inspired by Cristian Mihai's blog about being alone. I shared the link above. Please read it if you have not. I actually just blogged on "I'm Alone Now" because my nineteen-year-old son left home. I told Cristian that I related exactly to about eighty-percent of how he feels and I'm guessing …

Essay; The Honest Middle Ground


My last post, I made the point that I'm not interested in fawning adoration that leads to possessive marriage. Every woman I know is at a different point with this but it has to do with emotional maturity and financial independence. Most women don't prefer marriage, from what I've gathered, unless they're getting some type …

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