Essay; The “No Relationship Agreement”, Like a Pre-Nup only it’s a Pre-Sex


Bruno Mars has been locked out of heaven!

Essay; …and that’s why there is no attachment


Professional sex workers are as important to men as professional therapists, counselors, and psychologists are to women. If relationships mean the world to most women, and they do, then they like therapists who help them navigate the choppy waters. Women are more complex than men. We are also given more freedom to express our emotions …

Heartset; What is Connection?


A connection is an affinity, ease of communication, an understanding of another person, a desire to get to know someone better, the real possibility of a lasting friendship, and for women, respect. For men, it's a huge turn-off to contemplate respecting a woman although most won't admit it. A connection does not denote love, being …

Essay; Do We Really Need to Depend on a Partner Intimately?


It is very true that we are interdependent on one another in the second layer of society; fireman, government workers, health care workers, shop owners, food producers, mail folks, airline pilots and workers, taxi drivers; really an endless list. These are generally people who could be considered strangers or acquaintances in our local area. None …

Heartset; Not Caring is Ok Too Sometimes


I see so much admonition and platitude doodling on FB and Twitter. Posts saying, "Be this way, not this way", "Act this way, not this way" "Be your best, not your worst" and on and on.  I think it's getting old. Human beings always just do what comes naturally to them. Most of us just …

Can We Love One Another Without Traditional Bonding?


It depends on how you define bonding which I address below. In spiritual circles, we say, "Love at all times". So the heart is always open, to everyone and we are protected by Spirit and use our intuition as a guide so there is no fear. We still have to be discerning about how we …

Essay; Men and Sex. Not the Same as Women! Polyamory vs. Celibacy


The male animal has been domesticated and it's not all pretty. I think of that right-wing show I can't stand, "Last Man Standing" with Tim Allen as the star. I am at a unique vantage point right now on this issue as a single, 56-year-old, financially independent woman. The societal Disney pictures are that I'm …

Essay; People Are Who They Are


One of the things I think we all know as an adult is that you can't change anyone. But it's funny that we still try. I'm still single, not even a boyfriend and I'd say I'm content this way for now. However, I still have men DM'ing me quite often in all of the social …

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