Counterintuitive; the opposite of Intuitive


I haven't talked about something being counterintuitive yet but the word and the concept are well known in our culture. That's a good thing. That means most people are still using their intuition which means they're tuned into their body and enjoy it. That is nature and it's far more powerful than institutional and societal …

Heartset; Three Types of Heterosexual Relationships


The only one of these that is a real relationship is #3. The first two are sexual objectification. But by most people's standards, #1 is a real relationship and is considered prison by many men but socially increases his status. Really, any man who prefers #2 will say he doesn't want a relationship with a …

Essay; The Honest Middle Ground


My last post, I made the point that I'm not interested in fawning adoration that leads to possessive marriage. Every woman I know is at a different point with this but it has to do with emotional maturity and financial independence. Most women don't prefer marriage, from what I've gathered, unless they're getting some type …

Essay; 10 Reasons It’s Hard For Smart Women To Find Love


Nicole Timmons said what I usually say this time so I have a back-up. I love back-up which is so rare for me. There are few, very few allies for this blogger. By Nicole Timmons Finding love is not an easy feat for anyone. If you are a woman who is of a higher intellect, …

Essay; Bonding instead of Possession


  According to this picture, being physically alive is not a prerequisite to feeling bonded. Think about that. This is a common human experience all over the world; feeling the presence of and emotional bond to an ancestor who has died. Working with clients, I believe the emotional-spiritual bond humans feel to one another, family …

Essay; Platonic Love? Which One?


  Where does the term platonic love come from?   "It is named after Greek philosopher Plato, though the philosopher never used the term himself. Platonic love as devised by Plato concerns rising through levels of closeness to wisdom and true beauty from carnal attraction to individual bodies to attraction to souls, and eventually, union with the truth." He was also a …

Essay; Women Can Be Loving with Sexual Energy But Only if It’s Reciprocated


Today the rubber meets the road and as I was working out, Spirit got to me. Some say God or Source. I pride myself on listening for spiritual guidance so that I'm always in my power and integrity so that's what some of this information is. If it's not true for you, just leave it …

Heartset; The Heart is the Foundation for the Mind


A worthy motivation comes from your heart. If you don't feel you need a reason or you don't have a reason or haven't thought deeply enough about your reason for doing something, you're going to hurt people and yourself. If you know you hurt people and still go forward because you refuse to face your …

Essay; …and that’s why there is no attachment


Professional sex workers are as important to men as professional therapists, counselors, and psychologists are to women. If relationships mean the world to most women, and they do, then they like therapists who help them navigate the choppy waters. Women are more complex than men. We are also given more freedom to express our emotions …

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