The Facts of Evolution Overstep Fate and Destiny


I’ve bothered to bring ancient wisdom and systems of organizing and seeding DNA on Earth down to the molecular level because of free will guiding evolution. The attribute of free will is manifested by the Yellow Human tribe. Up until now, evolution has either been esoteric and in the realm of New Age Religion or in the lab with the reductionist geneticists using Crispr to slice and dice our DNA.

All religions have been a step forward for humans except for the superstitious parts that require no critical thinking. Generally you have a prophet, a seer, a visionary and a teacher. The new age movement has plenty of those types and unfortunately there is usually some strong, intelligent woman behind the Kings throne to keep him socially cued in. I still see it everywhere in 2020 and she still has to be beautiful and hang on his arm. She is capable of being the leader, but even in the New Age religion, men are men. They are egos that need to try to get territory and dominate because generally speaking, they’re not as strong as women. We tend to dominate this planet, walk into a room even with our shirts on and the men’s mouths drop open. Women have tremendous power just by our physical presence. That’s not the effect men have on women but we are most definitely paying attention and appreciate beauty. Well, I am. I love the line on “Big Bang Theory” where Leslie Winkle says, “Come for the breasts, stay for the brains”. That’s gold. Most men don’t stay for female brains unless they have brains themselves but being men, they need to feel dominant so many times will pick a woman less intelligent than him. Smart women still end up alone much of the time no matter how they look.

On Earth, we still have a problem with the subconscious programming of gender roles seeded in us by our parents generation who went through tremendous trauma to survive the cabal and their nefarious lies and actions. It may take us a while to heal that. In that sense, the New Age religion has been no different.

However, now it’s time to seed a New Science that has at it’s foundation the intended oneness of Mind, Body, and Spirit. Our body IS our Mind and IS our spirit. There is no more degradation of the body, women, sex, and celibacy. We know synchronicity is real and that in the Matrix it’s not about coincidence, ever. Everything happens for a reason.

But today’s Theme, Red 13 Earth TRANSCENDS synchronicity which is an attribute of Tone 13. Cosmic kin transcend, have presence, and endure. We go past what is normally understood or seen and are therefore leaders for the people.

Cosmics have the patience of a great tree. We have enduring patience and perseverance.

Trees are archetypes for EVOLUTION. Red 13 Earth kin navigate the Matrix, transcending synchronicity in order to EVOLVE. The great lesson of this kin is that on Earth we have the power of birth, intelligence, freewill, and SEEDS. Yellow 1 Magnetic Seed in the Hidden Wisdom. All good things on earth come from seeds and we must respect and guard them well. Why? Because seeds are little DNA packets. They are time travelling pods and ensure the future of Earth and our progeny; animals and plants.

Given all of that, the edicts of control, fate, the gods, and destiny are cast out by Earth’s children. We create our own destiny. There is no fate or control of the gods as told to us in Greek myths and others. The Tzolkin doesn’t even control us; it just organizes the Matrix. Everyone’s intentions IN TIME have to coalesce in an orderly fashion or there would be more chaos than there already is.

The analog support is White 13 Wind. This is divine breath, God speaking through evolution. I’m down with that and I’m listening. The Guide Power is Red 13 Dragon, Rupert Sheldrake’s birth theme. He teaches morphic resonance. That melds perfectly with terrestrial evolution and divine inspiration.

Morphic resonance, Sheldrake says, is “the idea of mysterious telepathy-type interconnections between organisms and of collective memories within species” and accounts for phantom limbs, how dogs know when their owners are coming home, and how people know when someone is staring at them.

Sheldrake is inferring what Arguelles inferred all the time; DNA is Time.© There is Interconnection between a DNA organism and collective memories which are time, is the way I would say it. And it’s not mysterious. I have it figured out and I’m putting it in a database to be analyzed. There is rhyme and reason to it.

The antipode is Blue 13 Hand or ongoing healing. I swear I’ve been a healer in every lifetime from planet to planet. I could do it in my sleep. My hands are so attuned to the natural body I can’t fathom calling myself a healthcare worker and not touching the body. It’s so bizarre to me. The boundaries are in my mind. I wouldn’t dream of crossing pa physical boundary with a patient yet sometimes I feel they want me to given the tremendous dysfunction in our society with regard to the body.

No one touches anyone with kindness. When a bodyworker does touch them with kindness and excellent therapy, some are confused. It’s a travesty. The human body is OBJECTIFIED because of our psychotic sick care system and no one is educated about how their body actually works. The doctors aren’t even educated that well. If Church and State can keep you ignorant about the unlimited power of your body to heal, bring pleasure, and accomplish what you wish, they can control you. That has been the status quo and is even now with this planned virus event.

MOLECULAR LINE-UP

The bottom two, isoleucine (Blue Hand) and valine (Yellow Seed) are identical. The power of the Earth and it’s elements TO HEAL naturally is deeply seeded on Earth.

JULY ENERGIES UPDATE BY THE PLEIADIANS ~ July 2020 by Pars Kutay


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Photo: Stunning Tor Sunset – Glastonbury Tor, UK…
Gaia’s Heart Chakra – captured by Kev Pearson

Beloved Ones, we greet you.

A further SHIFT within the Energetic Core within your Earth is creating an expanded focus, almost like a magnification of the Higher frequencies that open up an expanded LIGHT Framework. This “frame” is currently playing the role of a network that surrounds your planet and has been evolving over this period of time. This Network of LIGHT continues to SHIFT and Transform itself to carry the reflected change of a landscape of Multidimensional components that NOW make up planet Earth.

The Earth’s profile has changed and continues to unfold through an intensification of a LIGHT Pulse emanating from the Magnetic Core and interacting within the Grids, Vortexes and Ley Lines throughout the planet. These pulses are affecting and deepening the interaction between All the Sacred Sites throughout Earth, and this process is building an added intensity within the Earth’s Webbing. These Higher Dimensional LIGHT Framework designs are creating an environment to hold the extreme drama, which is destined to continue to unfold over the coming months.

Earth’s Shifting Frequencies also are being reflected within our resident Universe. The LIGHT from the Central Space of your planet is radiating out at a Higher LIGHT Vibration, and that is contributing to an Expanded Frequency Patterning within our Universe. “The God SOURCE Seat of Power” that extends beyond this Universe is NOW interactive within the movement of a Fluid Platform on Earth and throughout this entire resident Universe.

The HIGHER Knowledge from “the God SOURCE Seat of Power” benefits our Universe by bringing a Higher State of Collective Consciousness to every life force group within the Universe, including Humankind. This is the action of our Collective Destinies, for we, and all of our Universal Groups, are ONE within the God SOURCE Consciousness State.

COLLECTIVE AWAKENING
This next step action of Earth’s reemergence within the Universe is significant for all of Humanity. Through the Holy component of the LIGHT, of LOVE, which is BEing reflected onto your planet, many Re-Openings and natural Re-Awakenings will occur. The Frequency of the LOVE is designed to reconstruct the Multidimensional components of your Heart to enable you to significantly accelerate into a Collective Awakening.

Earth’s future role within the Universe is destined to BE significant. As the Energetic Frequency of LIGHT further intensifies and transforms on your planet, a Higher resonance of vibrational LOVE is ignited to actively interact throughout the Universe. The God SOURCE Consciousness network will realign Earth within the Universe and beyond. Your Earth plane is being realigned to this Higher Order of God SOURCE Consciousness at this juncture. That will reveal, and activate, a series of Higher-Elevated Frequency Platforms that have previously Not been accessible to you as a race.

Within these Newly formed Energetic Platforms exist dynamic flows of Electrical LIGHT that is drawing out the density within your planet’s physical structure and within the Human physical form. There has been an UnEarthing of this density, which has been hidden and held within Humanity and locked up until this Juncture. The internal pulse within your Earth plane is creating a lifting of this old, dark, hidden intensity, creating upheaval and the intense third-dimensional drama.

The violence and turmoil arising within your communities is part of the overall process to bring about a NEW Balance and a NEW Order of TRUTH to Be set in motion within your communities. The uprising is the result of hidden pain, suffering and suppression. Through the Higher LIGHT Frequency anchoring onto the planet, this imbalance can be tolerated NO More. Suppression and oppression through the prejudice and a lack of justice can NO longer continue within this HIGHER Energetic Environment.

Truth is being revealed. This is essential at this time within your communities. A NEW Order of Unity will Evolve within your Society, and each one of you plays a role within this Changing Cycle. As you choose to move and align within your Heart, you anchor TRUTH, which establishes a beginning of this NEW Order Directive to Birth within your communities.

YOUR OWN HEART
Our message to you is to live within the integrity of your own Heart. Allow the frequency of LIGHT to Shine Forth from your Heart. As you hold a steady platform of reconnection within your Heart, you are creating reconnection. You are able to utilize the powerful, Pure LIGHT Energy within your planet through your Heart to support this transition and much-needed change within Humanity. Those of you on this Awakened Path have pre-agreed to Anchor this Unlimited Energy of LIGHT Flow that exists within you to imprint your unique frequency of God SOURCE LIGHT through the Heart to support the SHIFT of the whole of Humanity.

You get to consciously choose these Sacred Moments of reconnection within your Heart Space. This is your individual role right NOW. There is nothing more essential than to take this action and anchor a NEW Wave of Consciousness within your Heart. This frequency of change can flow naturally from your Heart and out across your planet, creating an unfolding base for all Humanity to transform.

Simultaneously, this also is the Time for you to do some deep introspective work within your Human component. This is about you creating building blocks of stabilization for your Human element to enable a Balance to BE Bridged between your Multidimensional Nature and your Humanity.

Work within your Humanness by focusing on the feelings that are arising within you. Every feeling that is surfacing within you is BE-ing triggered, directly linked to events that are transpiring within your outer world. Spend the time examining the depth of your feelings, owning those feelings, whatever they are. Feelings do Not define you, and your feelings don’t have to make any logical sense. You are BE-ing triggered by the varied diverse happenings that are taking place within your life, within your world. These deeply lodged feelings have been within you. They are unresolved feelings from past experiences that you were unable to express at the moment of the experience.

Whatever the feelings — whether they are fear, struggle, anger, rage, betrayal or simply feeling out of control — the content does Not matter. What really matters is that you can take this time to feel what is coming up inside of you and what is being mirrored by the events around you. Simply feel the depth of the feelings and use the Conscious Breath (in and out of the mouth) to work deeply within these expressions as they arise within you. You can liberate your SELF. Let Go of old patterns from the past that have kept you in that cycle of self-sabotage in your day-to-day life. This is the Time for SELF-Resurrection!

DESTINED TO UNITE
Together, as a community, you are destined to Unite within your Hearts. The only True meeting point is within your Hearts. The Heart is beyond the corrupt energy of your ego mind. The Sacred Heart Communion is the most profound reference point that holds Pure Truth and LOVE within Earth’s environment.

The Collective TRUTH of joined Hearts can never be tainted. It creates an anchor base of Pure LOVE for Humanity to Birth. This Frequency of LOVE is necessary to set in motion the Evolution of a HIGHER Paradigm within Earth, re-anchoring Sacred Elements on your planet and re-establishing the element of “Heaven on Earth.”

Keep Letting Go and Trusting the vastness of your own Heart. In Truth, you can.

This time of Huge transformation, and transmutation, is being supported by the entire Universal community to allow for the unfolding of a full potential of your planet Earth so you and your communities can emerge into an authentic unique aspect of the God SOURCE LIGHT Network. Each one of you contributes to this Network with your unique colors of God SOURCE. “Like a Butterfly emerging from a cocoon, you spread your wings and take flight.”

LETTING GO
Through the duration of this third-dimensional chaos, you are being called to open into a continual Letting-Go process. You are to hold your focus within your Heart and open into Letting Go, and then choose to Let Go on another level. “Letting Go” is the conscious choice of realigning to your Rebirth. This letting go is done in increments as you move into transformation one step at a time. As you Let Go, you are allowing a continual falling away of the illusion that you have been holding onto. With each Conscious Breath you take within your Heart, you simply choose change.

Allow your attachments to the agenda of your ego mind to fall away. This is Self-Liberation. Allow your Heart to guide you. Breathe into the letting go of limitation as you embrace a whole NEW World of possibilities for your SELF within the Heart. As you choose to let go of the old debris connected to the illusion of the ego mind, you set your SELF Free to have more expanded experiences within the Heart. Simply choose to witness the drama and do NOT engage within the drama.

Your next step is to consciously anchor your Awareness within your Multidimensional Heart and allow a series of conscious choice moments of unfolding to occur within your Heart. This is the action of you Birthing you through your Multidimensional Heart. There is nothing more powerful for you to set in motion right NOW than this action of Self-Fulfillment within your Heart.

KNOW that you are NOT Alone in this Journey. Call forth the help you require in your day-to-day living to fully navigate through this time. Be specific in what you are asking to receive for your SELF — your needs, your desires.

Claim your Abundance and KNOW that the activation of your own creation energy elements arises within your Heart. Let Go and Trust the unfolding within your life that is in front of you. Each day open up in Gratitude for all that you have in this Moment. Through you taking ownership of your own creation in your world, you can align to a more focused part of your energy that exists within your Heart. BE the active creator of your world through your Heart. Set in motion a Wave of Creation Energy from your Heart outwards into your life by generating and building the energy of your Heart’s desire.

Your True action of power lies within you as you actively work within your Heart.

THE PROCESS
This process is simple. It is designed for you to harness your Heart’s Multidimensional Purpose in your life and to activate your Heart’s Desire in your life.

1. Hold your Heart with both palms resting on your chest. Align with your Awareness and a Conscious Breath (breathing in and out of the mouth).

2. Once you have anchored in your Heart Energy, begin to build the thought of your Heart’s Desire within your Heart. You achieve this by bringing your Awareness to your Desire, with the color, the form or details of the Desire. Your Heart will respond, whether you see, sense or feel this building energy or essence of your Desire. There may be a feeling of excitement or joy that is arising within you!

3. Once you have built the Energy of the Desire within your Heart, bring the sound — ENTAH EEE — within your Heart. This will release the energy of your desire to BEcome Manifest within your life. Note: Bring as many sounds as you need until it feels complete.

As you create with your Heart, you begin to actively align within this Higher Network on your Earth plane. Your conscious choice to join this Higher Network of LIGHT is another step of your Mission. We hold you, and witness you, on your journey.

Blessings,

THE PLEIADIANS

Channeled through Christine Day 💜
https://www.christinedayonline.com

shared with LOVE 💜
Pars Kutay

~ 💜 ~

Friday Starts Out Calm But It Likely Won’t End That Way. Red 11 Moon.


The Moon and Water are intimately intertwined

We have a moon in Virgo today as exact synchronicity. Meaning, OUR moon, right next to the earth, is placed in Virgo. Today is the Tzolkin archetype Red 11 Moon and it’s mediating planet is Mercury (in retrograde) which rules Virgo and Gemini.

This isn’t causing communication tech snafu today but the release of true feelings and thus some chaotic storm. The earth may throw a fit today as well as some humans. But because we have the White 11 Dog analog supporting the situation it may be fine.

I’m getting a lot of busy work done that had to be fixed and have no time for dawdling. That’s Virgo energy; taking care of details and focusing.

The attributes at play today are; purify, flow, universal water, love, loyalty, and heart, catalyze, energy self-generation, influence, wisdom, and free will. Overarching all of that is 11 Tone of Creation or SPECTRAL energy. That is releasing, liberation, and dissolving. It also means ghosts so think of dissolving one energy body into another which happens at death naturally.

This is happening emotionally for people right now as we continue to process the eclipse and the paradigm shift we’re in. People are deciding whether to SELF-generate or to allow TV/Government/Church/Sickcare generate for them for money and someone controlling them so they don’t have to put in the effort. This is the choice the whole human race is making right now.

The lesson of Blue Storm is that we create our own experience of storms, sunsets, sunrise, our own peace after a storm, etc. It’s all self-generated in our body by our mind so THERE ARE NO VICTIMS. Everyone on earth has victimization attempted on them but then you get to choose whether to internalize the energy and let your character be defined by that as a truth foisted on you by someone else or whether you want to overstep the perpetrator and empower yourself. The universe has your back and you absolutely have the final say over your own soul and body.

Each person on the planet has been given FREE WILL (Yellow 3 Human) to focus their mind on behalf of themselves and create the mind, body, and life they want. They just have to do it and stop wasting their energy blaming everyone else or waiting for someone to make them happy. It’s a terrible virus.

I’m not saying humans aren’t wrong most of the time. We are. But that’s how it is on Earth. We’re all learning. Still, can you imagine what kind of world it would be if everyone loved themselves and minded their own business!? Then we could actually share unconditionally with one another and learn quicker instead of getting in each other’s way.

MOLECULAR PERSPECTIVE

Methionine is Red Moon, Aspartic acid is the analog; White Dog, and the antipode is Tryptophan; Blue Storm. There is the daily synchronicity between the analog support and the hidden wisdom. That is a very calming influence I’m happy to say. Those two molecules are almost identical.

What is the Binary Triplet Configuration in the Tzolkin?


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What is 13? 3×4+1.

13 is the triplet 3 x 4 = 12 +1 (Earth and Humans (Yellow Human is tribe 12) plus a magnetic tone 1 pulse leading up to the overtone or Power of 5. Tone 5 is the radiant overtone which leads us to the 5th dimension, the galactic 5GForce which is pulsing in a big way right now.

13 is the triplet part of the binary triplet configuration in the Tzolkin which is perpendicular. The Binary (2-fold) is vertical. The zone of transformation for the DNA is in the middle and it transforms via the polarity zone.

The Tzolkin is way past binary code so I’m having to slow my mind down to think in their language. But it does translate easily on the 3D level. However, because it’s Multidimensional in it’s expression, the math is changing. The info. I have says the genome is digital but it’s not binary.🧐 Well, it is in the Tzolkin when you combine it with the Triplet in 13:20! They don’t have that info.🥳 Copyright, Lisa K. Townsend.

Jose Arguelles, Author of The Dreamspell and Earth Ascending.

Monday. Communal Seeds being Sown? Tone 12


This is the amino acid VALINE

Code 0-19; ;16:4:12:64

Tzolkin Archetypes: Theme; Yellow 12 Seed, Analog; Blue 12 Eagle; Guide Power; Yellow 12 Warrior; White 12 Wizard, Hidden Wisdom; Red 2 Earth

The attributes here are universalizing, cooperative awareness using vision and a creative mind to become more independent, artistic, compassionate and believing in ourselves. Guiding this is becoming more trustworthy, realistic, wise, graceful with higher standards. Challenging this is becoming aware of what it means to be receptive and timeless, and heart-knowing shaman, more concerned with spirituality. The subconscious mind sits in challenging facts about the family and parental institutions that eat their young. But there is synchronicity and ability to collect synergy, govern the earth force, shield as an earth keeper and still be liberal and confident.

Are communal crystal seeds going to be sown today? God, who knows! I need about a gallon of coffee and water today to get some work done and try to ignore the idiotic riots yesterday. Destruction is so stupid. My son put it in a nutshell yesterday. “Mom, people are idiots. They don’t need a reason to destroy stuff.” I found it QUITE interesting that the two small blonde woman in Grand Rapids who broke windows were scapegoated for punishment on Twitter. They were the ONLY woman I saw trying to destroy stuff. 99% of the destruction came from men as it does ALL OVER THE PLANET. Yeah, we haven’t discussed that yet in society. There ya have the gender offloading on women. The men want to crucify the women who express their anger.

I’m a compassionate empath but I’m feeling my approach changing here big time. Just this morning, fifteen minutes ago I cracked how the the 64 IChing Hx system with the 64 HF Tzolkin harmonic is organized exactly over the 260 kin Tzolkin harmonic. Spirit is giving this stuff to me fast and I need to keep working away to get my book, “DNA IS TIME” written.

I’m fully aware that I don’t have a Ph.D. in science, I’m a girl, and it’s taboo if I crack something that only BIG SCIENCE MEN are supposed to crack. For that reason, all this work I do may lay in a gutter or drawer, or computer hard drive and never get used for the benefit of humanity. I don’t care. I don’t need glory and money…at all. It can be used posthumously then. I’m here to do a job for the earth and all life on it. That’s it!

I know for a fact, our DNA is from species all over the entire universe, humans are ONE human family, there is no race except THE HUMAN RACE and our Minds are stronger than food, money, stuff, reproduction, everything in 3D. Our minds are multidimensional and we are in fact gods and goddesses and deathly afraid of that fact. We would have to get to work, make mistakes and deal with outcomes. We create superheroines and heros in movies to project what we know to be true inside of ourselves. That’s us!! Even the gods make mistakes. GOD doesn’t make mistakes but we are not God. We are the small “g’s”. There is tremendous responsibility in that.

5GForce is Yellow 2 Warrior. That is stabilizing yet polarizing intelligence and FEARLESSNESS in the 5th dimension which is MIND.

Saturday; White 10 Planetary Wind; Glycine


The image above are Amino Acid proteins, the building blocks of all life in 3D. They are multidimensional and compose our DNA. White Wind is Glycine, Red Earth is Phenylalanine, White Dog is Aspartic Acid, Yellow Human is Glutamic Acid and Blue Storm is Tryptophan. That is the 5 archetype themeplex today. The attributes are Planetary focused (Tone 10) communication that is in full synchronicity in the Matrix.

The chaos is quelled guided by planetary Love and Loyalty. The challenge and the gift are humans who have free-will and influence. We are the holders of the chalice or the Holy Grail of wisdom if only we’ll drink from it. It is the vessel of Higher Power or God In Us. We can be responsible for ourselves and to some extent each other, straightforward, abundant and good workers. We see that played out in Minneapolis; shadow and light.

The Hidden Wisdom is Self-existing self-generation. Holy Pete! This is a mega liberator of the light body and according to Pars Kutay, we have big, big light and sound energies flowing onto earth today. Your frontal lobe may be buzzing. Just meditate. This is ALL ABOUT ASCENSION.

SCIENCE CORNER

This is some info. on the correspondence between Glycine and Phenylalanine which are analogs in the Tzolkin harmonic. Molecular biologists may find interest in this.

The selective barrier-gate in nuclear pore complexes:

“The barrier confers distinct properties to the transport process that allow selective transport. First, it allows diffusion-controlled transport of molecules up to 40 kDa in size, equivalent to ∼ 5 nm. Second, larger cargo are known to traverse the NPC in a nuclear transport receptor (NTR)-mediated manner.Mar 10, 2017

“Natively unfolded phenylalanine-glycine (FG)-repeat domains are alleged to form the physical constituents of the selective barrier-gate in nuclear pore complexes during nucleocytoplasmic transport.” Read the full article here: https://www.pnas.org/content/103/25/9512

5GForce today is 4 Tyrosine of White 4 Mirror. This is Self-Existing Reflection from the fifth dimension.

Today’s 5Gforce.


Today’s Sound Groove.

Re-Program; The SCIENCE DELUSION


 

The Science Delusion Cover

The 10 Assumptions of Materialism

  1. Nature is mechanical. All of life is a machine and we are mechanical (Artificial Intelligence is trying to make the machine transcendent).
  2. Matter is unconscious.
  3. The laws of nature are fixed.
  4. The total amount of energy and matter is always the same.
  5. Nature is purposeless.
  6. Biological inheritance is material. Reality is material.
  7. Memories are stored as material traces inside your brain.
  8. The Mind is inside the head. It’s the same as your brain.
  9. Psychic phenomena are illusory. Telepathy is impossible.
  10. Mechanistic medicine is the only kind of medicine that works.

Of course, these are all wrong and not just a little wrong, completely wrong. This entire book is a well-thought-out disputation and refutation of these ten dogmas. My own life and career refute them empirically as well. Rupert Sheldrake is a heavyweight Ph.D. scientist and was banned from TED talks because he’s right and it upsets the entire apple cart. He is a scientist and supports the advancement of real science. Not only that but anyone who cares about the survival of sentient life on earth right now better speak up forcefully or we’re toast. He rocks out big time and I am in his court having experienced the movement of QI in patient’s bodies for 20 years.

I’m so sorry QI cannot be measured yet for people who are scared of actually feeling Life Force IN THE BODY but it’s real. The Chinese have understood and worked with QI for 10,000 years. It is the foundation of Chinese Medicine which I also endorse and use to the extent that I’m trained in it. QI is not unlike sunlight or a cell phone tower signal but it’s much more advanced and complex than that. It’s the seat of our consciousness.

In the last part of the book he says,

“The materialist agenda was once liberating but is now depressing. Those who believe in it are alienated from their own experience; they are cut off from all spiritual traditions, and they are prone to suffer from a sense of disconnection and isolation. Meanwhile, the power unleashed by scientific knowledge is causing the mass extinction of other species and endangering our own. The realization that the sciences do not know the fundamental answers leads to humility rather than arrogance, and openness rather than dogmatism. Much remains to be discovered and rediscovered, including wisdom.”

I highly recommend this book.

Thank you.


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Essay; A Woman’s Ego


 

Woman on a mountain

I originally blogged this on August 26, 2013; 6 years ago.

The book I wrote, “Healer” has a section on bonding; page 240.  Like most people, I believe that men and women have a tremendous amount in common biologically.  And I really do like most men.  However, socially, on Facebook, and in the town, I live in, the more I talk, as a literate person, as an intelligent woman with self-esteem that isn’t a doormat, as a woman who is a small business owner, the more I get called names like “egotistical” and “pathetic”.

So I decided to think about the difference between a woman’s ego and a man’s ego. There are books and articles about a man’s ego all over the place. The “fragile male ego” is well known.  But the woman’s ego?  Imagine, the “fragile female ego” being bandied about.  It’s more like, “New discovery!  Women have an ego! Make a flag for them!”

The definition of the ego is a sense of “yourself” or “self-centered”. Everyone starts out at a young age with a natural inborn sense of who they are as a person unless your parents or religion beat it out of you. That’s possible and maybe prevalent, but not healthy at all. People do tend to feel more secure if they agree with one another.  It’s curious.

A woman…with a sense of “herself”, pride, dignity, accomplished….well, she doesn’t sound very sexy.  Or does she?  Why do I assume she has to sound sexy? She doesn’t have to but women want sex probably more than men do. If you described a man that way it’s sexy.

There’s our first red flag. Women are given the message early on that their attractiveness as a potential mate, for the purposes of reproduction, should define their sense of self-worth. Thus the obsession with superficial looks as opposed to a big brain, articulateness, education, in essence, the character Amy Farafowler on “Big Bang Theory” (who I love). It’s just starting to catch on. And we are ever so grateful to Dr. Barbie and Corporate Manager Barbie to serve as a role model for young girls.

Yes, women have an ego.  Yes, women have a sense of themselves as an individual. Our needs with regard to education, intelligence, level of respect and pay in the workplace, respect in the home, respect from our sons, access to team sports, et.al are EQUAL to men.

I suppose I’ll spend the rest of my life writing and living an example of a woman with an ego who loves.  You can’t love from emptiness.  You can’t love if your body is falling apart because you’ve given your last ounce of life force to everyone else. Women can be an example of how to take care of ourselves first and then whoever else we prefer to care for.

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