We live in a complex spacetime matrix of freewill choice. Nothing is planned but chosen en masse and organized into a thought form or event automatically depending on what is agreed upon, either unconsciously or consciously. It’s like an appointment you mentally agree to.
Obviously not everyone agrees to the same environment or events which is why there is much diversity on earth. If you don’t like something or someone you can always choose another direction. If you don’t understand that you are a lost spacetime traveler or a victim which is not in reality. Everything happens for a reason even you can’t see it yet.
Sometimes we’re choosing by default because we are unaware of the power of our own minds and feelings!! Maybe we don’t remember our dreams. Maybe we hate our bodies or are married to the wrong person. Lol. I hear that a lot in my office from the women, not the men.
Pay attention to your body and grounding. Where are you in space and why? To work, pay bills, buy stuff, drink, take care of kids, have sex, workout, watch sports, be social?
Watch out for media and movies that teach romantic Serendipity or similar. There is no such thing. Life has rhyme and reason but if you’re knocking around like a pinball in a pinball machine you’ll never figure it out. They don’t want you to figure it out bc then you would be NO PROFIT TO THEM. They know all about the matrix and they abuse its power…for now because we let them.
You have to sit still, be quiet, and make sure you are mindful and choosing, even if it is only 20 minutes a day by yourself.