I’ve been aware of this for years and help men in my practice the same as women.
I think women over a few generations have invested and given more of their time and energy to help males along because they have always lagged behind females on many fronts. And look at our patriarchal controlled world…the dividend. Not. If women had been in charge, no way it would be this messed up. No way. Women let them run things. We wanted babies. Well, that may have to wait now. Gender equity is more important…I think. The only way men get away with anything is because we let them!
Most women I know have given up, not experiencing a LOVE return on our investment. Women don’t need just sex and money. Women need love and most men just don’t do it.
Feelings and lust are not love. Attachment is not love. FRIENDSHIP and RESPECT is love and it turns most men off to have that for a woman, unless they’re gay. They want diversity, fantasy and kink. I’m not in denial about that but many women still have romantic fantasies about men. It’s dumb. I still really like men but most good ones don’t seem to like me. The trolls line up.
We’ve tried to educate men but they are who they are. They’re not us; heart centered, powerful, and beautiful. Women are awesome. That said, I am not attracted to them in the least.