The word “Love” is a prison?

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I find loving others to be freedom. There aren’t diiferent kinds of love as love is a unified singularity in the universe.

Love is expressed differently to different people based on social custom. All love has physical connection and expression with it. We hug our parents and kiss them on the cheek,  maybe hold or rub their hand. Those physical expressions are the same for friends.

They are the same for lovers but Eros is added to it. However, it’s important to have that physical contact in a friendship before sex. It just seems very dysfunctional to me to have sex with someone unless they are your friend first and you’ve loved each other for awhile.

Of course talking, communicating and understanding each other all enters in to all of those relationships as well. But it appears to me that men view loving someone, anyone, as a type of prison. I’m mystified. Truly. Love is all there is! Don’t be afraid to say it, do it, feel it,  or live it. It’s the only thing we truly need and absolutely cannot do without.

What we know now is guilt, self-loathing, perfectionism, illness and addiction wear away at your core of self-love. Self-love is being your own best friend, who you are and how you take care of yourself when no one else is around. Treat yourself the way you would your best friend. I do that now and it helps me feel secure in knowing my value in relationships.

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