Essay; The Feminine Word Equivalent to the Masculine Word, “Emasculate”

It’s time for this conversation.  So the first emotional, resistant response from blogger “Anonymous”: on here was this;

Was hoping to find an answer to an interesting quirk of language, but instead found a rambling, borderline nonsensical Feminist rant about gender roles.

I’ll do you a favor; TL; Dr. Is there a female equivalent to the word ’emasculate’? Answer, No.”


He says he’s doing me a favor with this hateful reply.  What do you think? So, here we have one confirmation of a male who cannot fathom being equal with a good woman. At least he put some emotion into it, but he made quite a few spelling mistakes.

The word emasculates, as we all know, means to deprive a man of his male role or identity.  Strong, justice-oriented women who have self-esteem and know their power are ridiculed for doing this to men, no matter what the men have done to women.  They can do whatever they want to women and she’s supposed to take it and not ask for respect?  Sounds like a Christian, Republican, Trump voter. Most men, I don’t believe, are like this, but many are.

What would be the word for depriving a woman of her female role or identity?  Below, the word “defeminate” is suggested but I don’t believe it’s caught on.  It doesn’t really roll off the tongue, no sexual suggestion intended.  This word actually sounds similar to defemate.

Dr. Mary Stopes described here in Margaret Jackson’s The Real Facts of Life: Feminism and the Politics of Sexuality, c1850-1940:

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What about “efeminate”?  This word is more of a direct correlation with the word “emasculate”.

Well, we can banter about “defeminate” or “efeminate” or take a poll. The real work will be to define what it means to deprive a woman of her female role?  My visceral response to this, which I feel is realistic, is that women don’t have “a role”.  Women have advanced so far, because of our choices and willingness to work for it, that it is common knowledge that we can be whatever we want to be and do whatever we want to do, or not do!  Every woman’s personality is different as well, so how she expresses her femininity is unique.

There is very little social pressure on women anymore to be married or to be mothers. That said, I see that the instinct is still there in our bodies which can cause a lot of conflict with our minds.  It is entirely socially acceptable for a woman to have her own property, money, job and no family.  Maybe she just has a job and friends and has casual sexual relations with men and women!  No one cares anymore.  It’s just important to honor yourself and be healthy and happy.

Feminism and women’s liberation has brought us to this point.  If a woman has her life organized and has money, she can hire a handy male or female to do whatever work she needs to be done around her house; yard work, snow blowing, construction, painting, you name it.  If she’s intelligent, why would she waste her time doing work that she can pay someone else to do who is good at it!  She has her own work to do in her quiet, clean house that does not have a man stomping around, causing a ruckus, watching sports, and being noisy and disrespectful.  She is no one’s territory. She belongs to herself and her spiritual life.

The way I see it is, men with their polyamorous proclivities, innately wired into their brains to sleep with as many women as they can and get an ego brush from making as many women scream as they can, have whored themselves for millennia now.  They don’t seem to be interested in Love or Bonding which has secured life for women and children for millennia as well.  Love and Bonding are our bedrock.  Many men can’t feel it nor do they operate that way.  Sure, the man may feign loyalty, get married, put a ring on the fourth finger and become a father, but most women believe that it is in his nature to fuck as many women or men as he can before he dies.  It’s not his mandate to love as many women as he can before he dies or love one woman as much as he can before he dies. There are enlightened men in the minority, but it’s not the norm.  This is despite his religious or spiritual beliefs.  Nature always trumps belief folks.  If ya gotta go, ya gotta go.  Sex is no different for men.

It is different for women.  The sexes are not equal yet.  Women understand heart and relationship, children and home, business and money, assertiveness and organization, and leadership, we are the dominant species on the planet.  Love trumps hate and usage. Love trumps whoring your body for shallow, nonbonded sex.  Love trumps patriarchal objectification of women.  Love and bonding trump superficial sex just for an orgasm. Friendship is the highest bond there is.  Spirituality with Love, during sex, trumps giving it away with no bonding.  When most men find out that a woman loves herself this much, and they can’t measure up, they’re out the door for the next porn flick or booty call because they’re not willing to be a good student and eventually love in reciprocation.

If a user male somehow manipulates that love from us, there will be righteous indignation completely justified. Our bodies and our souls embody Love.  This is a huge planetary reality that weaves throughout nature.  Women’s bodies are synced with the Earth, Moon, and stars.  We can be no other way.  If a man wants to learn the way of all flesh on Earth, he will listen to and follow the woman and attempt to raise himself up to be her equal.  Women have raised their minds up, why can’t men raise their bodies up?  In return, she will love him with loyalty and adoration.  That’s the best thing he’ll ever be able to achieve in this life.  I know it’s just an ideal.  It’s not really happening.

The day men help us instead of hinder us caused by making more mess and noise on the planet is the day there is more peace on earth.  But they don’t like peace.  They like to blow stuff up.







14 Replies to “Essay; The Feminine Word Equivalent to the Masculine Word, “Emasculate””

  1. There is no rational reason for your disappointment when we don’t know each other, or hate a relationship. I’m not writing “for you”. Thats crazy. Your lash out at me is un-called for and proves my points in the blog.

  2. Men, women, and those servants they hire. Wow! No wonder I feel completely disengaged with the feminist movement….

  3. Excellent piece. The domination of men by women makes men into objects as much as it makes women into objects for defamation. The biggest difference is that men don’t get it. Men, including myself, have been born into the privileged gender of male in this crazy hierarchical system. Until they wake-up to the system their stress levels will be automatically higher and they are as much slaves to the slaves they dominate. Love the word “defeminate”. I plan on using it.

    1. Thanks. I agree about men being used by materialism and globalism but how does that square with the energy of patriarchy ending in 1992? Feel free to use my word. 😊

      1. Short answer – history takes a long, long time…

        Longer answer:
        The patriarchy began – mostly likely before recorded history and is quite old. Dealing with astrological phenomena there are no lines in space – meaning that a planet or the measurement of an epoch has a period where there is a cusp. Cusp periods can last a few hours as it is with Mercury going retrograde or direct or a 1,000 years as it may be with an epoch. The reboot of the Mayan Calendar may be another example.

        The ending of the patriarchy energetically – as felt by me and many others as well as predicted by Aztec prophesy is energy first manifestation later. Its clear that the events happening around us indicate that that patriarchy is failing and in crisis. Power-possessors – males are terrified at the end of their power and are grasping for increasing amounts of control.

        Just yesterday morning my Guides indicted that Trump “is playing his part” as in the collapse of the patriarchy. A partnership epoch is coming – a community of giving and receiving as I may have indicated in your post about the chakras. Root and Second chakras will always be related to money / survival. In the new epoch the throat chakra dynamics will emerge as a force.

        We tend (as a culture) to hang on to old familiar ways (root of familiar – family). All families are on a continuum of dysfunction to health. In times of crisis many fall back on what they know – dysfunction while others, the change agents fight for change. Warren and Sanders for example are change agents as are many more.

      2. I agree about Trump, Warren, and Sanders. I know Trump was a set up during his campaign and marvelled at how the power players were using him. I’ve been working with the Mayan infor, The Tzolkin for 30 years. You may enjoy my FB group Time Science & Art. Just type that in the search box. Thanks for the info. Astrology and the Tzolkin cycles are exactly synechronized ya know. You would see some ot that in my group. I have an idea to create a new chart where solar time and multidiemensional time are analyzed and synced up and the solar birthday also keys into the multidimensional self.

      3. My book “Healer” addresses the exact issue of transcending the family given subconscious mind and moving into the conscious mind (or as the case may be the unconscious which forms the body).

  4. Trolls always have to troll, rather than educate themselves on the subject matter, I personally believe in human growth no matter the pain of changing your mind. Your article is great.

  5. I’m not convinced that wanting multiple sexual partners is hardwired into the male of the species, or that monogamy hardwired into women. It’s hard to sort out what’s innate and what’s learned and what may be a bit of both. In the absence of hard evidence, personally I’d hold off on a conclusion.

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